View Full Version : My female best friend asks if I like her...
freshprince82
Sep 16, 2014, 08:10 PM
My female best friend keeps asking me if I still like her and I don't know what to say or do... She said if I don't tell her, she'll be left to assume that I do. She also has a boyfriend in a long distance relationship so what does it matter to her if I say yes or no? Why does she want to know so bad if I like her or not? What does that mean? Should I avoid contact with her and move on from her? We have class together every other day so it'll be hard to completely ignore her.
odinn7
Sep 16, 2014, 09:51 PM
We don't know what she is thinking and why she wants to know...maybe you should try something that nobody ever seems to think of....try ASKING her.
talaniman
Sep 17, 2014, 05:34 AM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/liking-friend-who-likes-someone-else-798851.html
Your story has taken on a weird twist hasn't it? Bottom line is she still has a boyfriend, and you cannot be a friend because YOU still want more. Now she presses you on it and you cannot even be honest, or tell her to leave you alone about it.
The relationship with you and your best female friend has changed greatly and you have yet to make the proper adjustments to it. You better set some BOUNDARIES.
smoothy
Sep 17, 2014, 05:45 AM
Good grief. Maybe its time to give celibacy a serious consideration.
Fr_Chuck
Sep 17, 2014, 06:11 AM
If you like her, tell her. If you don't tell her.
Ask her why she wants to know, and why does it matter.
How about actually talking to her about it.