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Crystal25152
Aug 30, 2014, 07:52 AM
Hi! I'm 11 years old in 6th grade and a girl. I like this boy from last year. He's just a few months older than me. I don't want him as a boyfriend yet because I'm too young, but any ideas on how I can become his GF hopefully in the future? Or at least get his attention? He's really nice and actually a little mature and knows a lot. I'm technically the only girl who you can find around him, me just walking behind him and his friends, well their kind of my friends too. XD Sure, I guess were friends now, but mainly, do I have a chance in the future?

Edit- I'm also asking this because I'm kind if weird. I wear big, dark sunglasses and a bright pink sun hat when I'm outside because my eyes are VERY light sensitive. And when I'm not outside, I can't see well and stuff. I'm also have albinism. People say I look pretty, but I think I look weird. I'm not the type of person who cares about their looks that much. But I feel like I stand out too much. I just don't feel confident...

Precious7
Aug 30, 2014, 11:37 AM
You are 11 and you have already decided that you want to be GF of this boy in future. Till future comes there is going to be lots of change happening in our surrounding, so really don't know and cant answer for future. But I would love to answer in future when you are and you still want to be this boy GF. So, please ask the same question in the future if nothing changes! Till then you can be a good friend just a friend, (with no emotional and physical attachments). So just be friends and know everything about this Boy and when future arrive, then you decide, if you want to be his GF!

And your second question is not clear, can you explain a little more?

joypulv
Aug 30, 2014, 11:54 AM
Tagging after a bunch of boys isn't going to get one of them interested in you. Just say hi when you see him, and if he stops walking, have something planned to talk about briefly, like a new teacher or a book. Nothing personal, not yet.

Albinism is just what it is - nothing to do with anything, except what you have to do to avoid sun in your eyes, etc. One of the prettiest women I've ever seen was albino (and she was Chinese, so all the people she was with that day had black hair).

Make sure you have regular friends ALL through school and beyond, because they are there for you in a million ways when romantic love fails!

talaniman
Aug 30, 2014, 12:39 PM
You are not weird, just unique and different. Nothing wrong with that, but lets wait for the future to get here and see what it brings before we start setting you up to be a girlfriend for your present crush. No telling what will happen between here and there so just enjoy being friends and schoolmate for now.

You should enjoy ALL your friends and mates and not just daydream about one ALL the time but I know that's hard at your age when you have a strong crush.

Crystal25152
Aug 30, 2014, 12:55 PM
Thank you guys. :) I guess I'll just have to wait and see, eh? And besides, I might forget about me liking him in a few years. -.-"

cdad
Sep 2, 2014, 06:54 PM
Crystal, at your age we were all kind of weird as we were getting used to the new perspectives that we were developing in the world around us. Your mind is moving from the "me" to the "we". It is a lot to wrap your head around. What it really means is that your normal. Everyone goes through stages and you are experiencing yours at this time. As far as looking weird because you may be albino that is just your uniqueness showing through. Thats all. Besides your in good company. If you like rock or blues you might want to look up johnny or edgar winter. They are brothers and albino too. Very famous rock stars that are now aclaimed legends.

As far as boys are concerned just take your time. Trust me they will be chasing after you sooner then you think. So stay true to yourself and be as awesome as you can be !!!!

Fr_Chuck
Sep 3, 2014, 01:21 AM
I was always "weird" and still am. That is all part of being you. Some people will like you, others will not. We can not control or make anyone have feelings.

At your age, just be yourself, and be friends will many people. The girlfriend and boyfriend issues are years ahead