Hello, I'm new one, had an experience, which is strange for me. When I was walking in the street, one foreigner asked me if I speak english and how to get to some place, and then I answered. He was really happy to meet someone who speak english well. Then he started to ask about me, we were talking for 15-20 min, he took my number, and walked away. After one hour he (I'll name him Kayo) texted me that happy to meet me and asked to help him to find hotel and have a cup of coffee. I thought it will be a good deed to help someone who doesn't know your country and city, so I agreed.

The next day we met, went to the hotel and I helped Kayo to check-in (there was no people who was speaking well in english). We went to his room. He lied down on bed, I thought he should have a rest, cause he was really tired. He told me to sit down on bed too. Then asked me if I ever had kiss, I said -no (I never had relationships with boy and never kissed someone, I was like a holy lol). Kaya moved closer and said me that he wants to teach me how. I was in shock. I thought about this nasty things (like : omg he is older than me for 10 y. He wants from me only sex) when he invited me, but when we met 2nd time this thoughts disappeared, because he was like a cold man and behaved like older brother. Let's get back to scene in room. He didn't wait for my answer : I want or not, and just started to kiss me. Then with tongues, Kaya's hands went down to my and above. He was touching my clitoris, I was afraid and disabled him to touch it naked. We had a pause for 10 min. He started to kiss me again. At this time it was more sexy, he touched me naked there and started to play with my breast, I was in hard feeling of excitement and wanted more. I was touching his penis (not naked) and wanted more, so took off his pants- to mastrubate his cock. Then he took off my shirt, was kissing my breast. It had been for 30 min. I didn't want sex, this new and out of ordinary for me was enough. I had to go, Kaya wanted again but I refused and went out.

I was feeling myself very very bad (like a whore), I thought I'll hate him for it. But when I got home, thoughts about day with him haven't been leaving me for 2 days (now is the 2d day). I texted him after 4 hrs. (that day when it happened) he wasn't replying me back for 5 hrs. And replied, I texted again but he didn't replied me back, I don't know why (he told me that he will be in another city the next day of the same country where I live) it takes 1.30 hour to be there but he don't mind to reply me.

Missing him... Should I forget him? Q_Q

Poor young girl,got a thrill and wanted more.

Of course you forget him and get over the cheap thrill by an older more experienced guy. The feel good you fell for may stay with you but it would be really foolish to pursue it. Guess where that will lead. He has done this before many times and is good at at so don't be dumb enough to fall for that again.

Good deed my a$$. You let yourself be led and used for a quick thrill. Of course he will be nice and groom you for his own purpose since you are so young naïve and WILLING. Stop making yourself available to experienced strangers.

Learn the difference between good deeds and dumb sh!t!

Thanks ;) I thought about what you wrote and agree with u! Poor me T.T ( he was telling me that he will just teach me how to, so when I'll have a boyfriend it'll be good. He told me advices for future, like I need to have things like contraception( condoms... ) sure I knew this. But this, what he told me, made me sure of him, I felt smthng like protection. ( he is a doctor, this is 2d point that entered me into trance) it's so psychological, I don't know but I think if person see doctor, he feels like in a protection.. Yeah? Or not ?

He was probably lying about being a doctor. That was to make you relax and not be suspicious. Ethical doctors do not travel in order to find innocent young women to rape. Please do not contact this man or answer your phone if he calls. You do not need sexual experience at age 17!!!

Yes it is easy to be charmed, but the easy smiles and ways of a stranger can hide a very dark nature and you should be VERY careful and cautious who you let your guard down to, and to whom you give your number too.

A devil hides behind a friendly smile and charming ways. He cannot get close to you if he wears his true nature and bad intention can he? Caution is wisdom and protection. Is it NOT?

You'r right!

Sure I will never let smne to rape, and I know this is really bad. It will be only after wedding. I thought that it will be only kiss :c

You'r right!
So, what is your plan for the future? You'll ignore him and not meet him again?

Yes, I'm sure he won't come back again to my country. And I' ll just forget him.. Anyway I have to find someone who is really good person

Really good web site <3

Yes, I'm sure he want come back again to my country. And I' ll just forget him.. Anyway I have to find someone who is really good person

Really good web site <3
And your question was a really good one! Maybe it will help other young women who are being deceived and pulled into sex.

It's really helpful, mistakes make anyone more smarter. I hadn't know what to do if he raped me. Thanks god T.T

Just to add... it would be a good idea to change your phone number as a precaution, then you'll have no worry of him trying to contact you.

I suppose you have learned to never go into a hotel room with a stranger. You were very lucky this time. Not only could you have been raped, but worse.