I am a 25 year old female and recently got married in march 2014. I am facing problem while insertion. He has been using condoms for safe sex. But while insertion, I get severe pain in my genitals and severe headache that last for 5-7 minutes. So till now we haven't had successful sex even for once. Due to this we are not able to enjoy sex instead it had become a trauma every time.

What about lubrication, is there enough foreplay prior to starting?

Is there a possible allergic reaction to the condom? Have you tried a non latex model.