MadlyHatter
Aug 12, 2014, 02:26 PM
I've come to the realisation that my next door neighbour is being abused by her parents (she still lives with them). I think she's in her late twenties/early thirties, I don't even know her name and we've been living next door to each other for at least sixteen years (I'm 22). I've never seen her with any friends or a partner, in fact I've never seen her without her mother. I know they work together but other than for that I've never seen her leave the house, at least not without her mother.
There's always been screaming and shouting in their house, its been going on so long and from when I was so young that I barely noticed it until I came back from university. Now I notice when she's crying outside in their garden, and I can hear her being hit (with something like a slipper or shoe?) through my bedroom wall while they shout.
I've asked other people in the village if they know anything about her, and it takes them a while to even remember she exists, which is absolutely shocking because I think they've been here at least 20 years. I don't think she has any friends, and its horrible hearing and seeing her upset and getting screamed at and hit and I don't have any grounds to just call her up and ask if she wants to come over for a cup of tea.
I'm wondering if maybe I should start just popping to their shop and buying something from them for my pets and striking up a conversation with her each time, and maybe stopping her when I see her in the garden and ask how her day's been, just to get something going so if I do see her crying it wouldn't be weird or none of my business to ask if she's okay and if she wants to come round.
But then I wonder if I should stay out of it, or if I should do something else, I doubt if I told anyone or called the police she'd say anything against her parents, she seems to have good and bad days with them, so she might not even realise its not okay. I don't know what to do.
There's always been screaming and shouting in their house, its been going on so long and from when I was so young that I barely noticed it until I came back from university. Now I notice when she's crying outside in their garden, and I can hear her being hit (with something like a slipper or shoe?) through my bedroom wall while they shout.
I've asked other people in the village if they know anything about her, and it takes them a while to even remember she exists, which is absolutely shocking because I think they've been here at least 20 years. I don't think she has any friends, and its horrible hearing and seeing her upset and getting screamed at and hit and I don't have any grounds to just call her up and ask if she wants to come over for a cup of tea.
I'm wondering if maybe I should start just popping to their shop and buying something from them for my pets and striking up a conversation with her each time, and maybe stopping her when I see her in the garden and ask how her day's been, just to get something going so if I do see her crying it wouldn't be weird or none of my business to ask if she's okay and if she wants to come round.
But then I wonder if I should stay out of it, or if I should do something else, I doubt if I told anyone or called the police she'd say anything against her parents, she seems to have good and bad days with them, so she might not even realise its not okay. I don't know what to do.