Hello!

Looking for a movie I saw many years ago.
I only remember a few bits of the film.

It is about a man who lives in a large house with her daughter who for some reason do not talk to him. But she's talking to a woman who lives in the house can not remember if it is the man's girlfriend or just a nanny.
He is involved in any form of the mafia or gangster activities involving a port.
Another guy who goes to work for him (I think they're old friends but am not sure) his daughters and wife are shot in church when they should take communion or confirmed. He wants so clearly avenge their death and beats companion with the other man.
When they then begin to fight back against the rival gang, it's one of the men who become korssad during a continer in port and one gets shot in one of those booths that manages a boom into the harbor.

Would really appreciate any help I can get to see this movie.