AGCCSMOM
Jul 17, 2014, 07:52 AM
I am trying to find information on how to collect back child support plus the 9% interest for my adult disabled child who is now 21. Oregon support enforcement told me I cannot collect any back support from the father, until his youngest child (6) reaches the age of majority. He lives with this child and mother but they are not married so there is a support order for him. Basically it's out of his pocket and into hers, which by the way is also his. Does that make any difference? I am going through a divorce and now am not able to afford all of our living expences. My daughter receives the full amount of SSI. I am paid to care for her at home through the state however, it's not a living wage, but it is enough to keep us from recieveing food stamps. (I do receive a small amount of child support from the man I am divorcing now for my 16 yr. old son with him) I cannot believe this can happen. It's not right. Also, they told me, that the case could get dropped all together because so many years will have gone by. He owes me $15,000. I don't know if the interest will stop as well from the day she turned 21. What am I to do? We really need this support money. I cannot work outside of the home due to her disability. I can't afford a care provider with her $ and SSI knows that. Any job I would get would be min. wage because I lack skills or schooling. (stay at home mom for her for 21 years) So basically I would have to pay to go to work? Oregon state support enforcement did not tell me I was not able to receive the back support until I asked them why I wasn't recieveing it, and they said they stopped collecting the day my daughter turned 21. WHY? They don't know why, they just do the job they are told to do. Seriously, that was what the guy told me. I tried calling the main office in Salem Or. But they just fwd me back to the Portland office and my case worker. This is really a waist of time dealing with them because they have no idea what is beyond 18- 21 yr. olds. Any ideas?