So I have herpes my boyfriend don't no yet & I'm pregnant I have to go to the hospital today to get a ultrasound.. Will they discuss I have herpes or no ? I don't want him to find out by the doctor because he is coming wit me?

Don't you maybe think this is something you should tell him?

Yes.I am . But not right now

Maybe after he gets it from you...then you can tell him.

It probably wouldn't be discussed but it will be something that will need to be discussed before birth to prevent transmission to your child.

The question is whether you had it before you got together with your boyfriend. This should have come up before the first sexual encounter with him. If you got it during the relationship that could bring up interesting conversations as well. Becareful though, sex without disclosure could being about criminal charges. Non-disclosure can transform consensual sex into aggravated sexual assault.

Good luck.

Thanks & I think I got it from him.. I was looking through his phn n he was searching up herpes& stuff.. We been together for 7months now & ea rlier in our relationship I had when to doc& they told me I had chlymidia&herpes.. I only told him about chlymidia.. than he went to doc& disnt hve nun.. ithink he lied because he told me he think he gave me the chlymidia . So I'm so confused & scared

7 Months and you're pregnant with this fellow's child. And you think he gave you chlamydia and maybe herpes. Okay here is what you need to do. First off you need to realize that your child is the most important thing right now. The health and safety of your child while being born. Having herpes you might be forced to have a c-section (I am not sure about this), but you will be given certain drugs to suppress it so that the chances of your child getting it are low. If you child gets it it won't just be on their genitals, it will be everywhere, specifically the eyes and mouth, so that would be a worse sentence than you have now.

As well realize that you're in the early parts of your relationship with him and things might go south. Make sure you and your child are protected from that. This is going to be a hard path but remember your child is paramount here.

This information needs to be out in the open. The source of it needs to be discovered. If he had it before hand than bad on you for not asking or bad on him for not telling and lying. If it is something that he got during the relationship, leave. Get out. Figure out what is important an what you need to do to protect that which is important. This goes beyond your herpes. As well every partner you have you HAVE to tell them this before you sleep with them. No questions asked. You should be confused and scared, but realize that there is a way out and it is going to take strength.

1. Today, not tomorrow, you sit down with the boyfriend and talk to him about the STD. You do not pretend it is not there. If you did not get it from him, he needs to know. If you got it from him? He has it. *** you said he does not have it yet ?

In all these months he has not noticed you have it ?

You are about the most irresponsible person I have heard on this board. If you have this, your sexual partners need to know.

I would hope all of the doctors and medical staff are aware of this, since they need to know.