rummii
Jun 4, 2014, 09:52 AM
I met my girlfriend in a hostel when I was on a trip to Malaysia KL. She was the hostel owner which I did not know first I saw her. I came to the door of my hostel and saw her sitting with people and I noticed she was looking at me while I was talking to one of the guys I knew for few days. I thought she was a Japanese first until I met her again next morning and we exchanged some conversation. Next day she invited me out with bunch of other people and we went drinking and I got drunk and we all went crazy and had a good time. Next day I saw her again and I apologised to her if I did anything stupid the previous night and she just said nothing was wrong and she really enjoyed the night out. That same evening we made out in the common room and we ended up having sex. We met each other almost everyday after that night, until she went to another city for her work and I followed her after few days. We ended up living together for a week and returned back to the city. I ended up working with her in the business she owned and we both worked hard and made many positive changes to the business.
We lived together for almost few months until one day I told her the secret I have been hiding from her all this while. I told her I was married and had 5 children from a relationship that almost ended 3 years ago. Since we first met we both shared a dream of having so many children including adopting children to have a total of at least 20 kids. She was very open to the idea. However when she learned about me she was devastated and I could see how hard it was for her to move on but she did finally accepted me. I felt the I was the happiest man on the face of the earth. I explained her all about my previous life and why it was so complicated, actually potentially dangerous. My ex wife was a lunatic who been destroying her life and the children life for being an impulsive borrower. She brought the family to a brink of destruction twice until I decided to leave her and choose a secluded life.
Last July I went to see my children and I got caught off guard by my wife and she filed a false case against me and I was thrown in jail for a week until my GF came for my rescue. That action proved to my GF that my wife was a freak selfish, and I was so lucky to have my GF by my side since than all the time. My GF stood by me shoulder to shoulder till the end until all the charges were dropped and I was a free man again. During the ordeal I lost 3 children to my wife and 2 boys came to me voluntarily. I was devastated throughout this ordeal that took almost one year. During this time my GF with my 2 boys were living away from where our business was and it was a constant worry to me that if we lose the business we will lose the only sustainability we had.
My GF use to go back to check on business time to time she did went back and forth few times and nothing happened we were happy and I always felt so blessed to have found a person like her. There was enormous trust between us. She eventually start loving my 2 boys and they accepted her too.
During the last stage of this whole ordeal I was totally devastated to see my children getting divided, thinking about their future and thinking about my GF took so much toll on me. I start find my GF acting childish all of a sudden, stubbornness, lack of focus, extreme jealously and she stopped communicating with me. I never thought she could become like this because she assured me that she will never do it. She will be strong all the way till the end. Just few days before I was supposed to wrap everything and finally go back to my GF she called me and she officially broke up with me.
I tried all I could but she don't answer my calls she don't want be back anymore. I have lost everything I had for her and she lost all she had for me just to break up at the last minute. She once told me that she use to break up with guys like that, the minute she see the guy is not the right person she just break up. She even told me about one of her BF wanted to commit suicide for her and she gave him the knife.
Sometimes I still can't believe it happened, even the last call she wanted to keep the line open and keep talking but I was so frustrated by her sudden abandonment that I told her to be straight and simple with me just tell me she want to break up and she said yes I can't continue with you any more because you are not treating me nice. All we had was little skirmishes now and than over the YM or emails or FaceTime. But not too serious ones. I never lost my temper with her because I admired her so much and everyday I thought she was the perfect girl for me. She was the best thing ever happened to me. I still believe I can get her back because Im sure she still love me. I just don't know what to do. I am so devastated.
We lived together for almost few months until one day I told her the secret I have been hiding from her all this while. I told her I was married and had 5 children from a relationship that almost ended 3 years ago. Since we first met we both shared a dream of having so many children including adopting children to have a total of at least 20 kids. She was very open to the idea. However when she learned about me she was devastated and I could see how hard it was for her to move on but she did finally accepted me. I felt the I was the happiest man on the face of the earth. I explained her all about my previous life and why it was so complicated, actually potentially dangerous. My ex wife was a lunatic who been destroying her life and the children life for being an impulsive borrower. She brought the family to a brink of destruction twice until I decided to leave her and choose a secluded life.
Last July I went to see my children and I got caught off guard by my wife and she filed a false case against me and I was thrown in jail for a week until my GF came for my rescue. That action proved to my GF that my wife was a freak selfish, and I was so lucky to have my GF by my side since than all the time. My GF stood by me shoulder to shoulder till the end until all the charges were dropped and I was a free man again. During the ordeal I lost 3 children to my wife and 2 boys came to me voluntarily. I was devastated throughout this ordeal that took almost one year. During this time my GF with my 2 boys were living away from where our business was and it was a constant worry to me that if we lose the business we will lose the only sustainability we had.
My GF use to go back to check on business time to time she did went back and forth few times and nothing happened we were happy and I always felt so blessed to have found a person like her. There was enormous trust between us. She eventually start loving my 2 boys and they accepted her too.
During the last stage of this whole ordeal I was totally devastated to see my children getting divided, thinking about their future and thinking about my GF took so much toll on me. I start find my GF acting childish all of a sudden, stubbornness, lack of focus, extreme jealously and she stopped communicating with me. I never thought she could become like this because she assured me that she will never do it. She will be strong all the way till the end. Just few days before I was supposed to wrap everything and finally go back to my GF she called me and she officially broke up with me.
I tried all I could but she don't answer my calls she don't want be back anymore. I have lost everything I had for her and she lost all she had for me just to break up at the last minute. She once told me that she use to break up with guys like that, the minute she see the guy is not the right person she just break up. She even told me about one of her BF wanted to commit suicide for her and she gave him the knife.
Sometimes I still can't believe it happened, even the last call she wanted to keep the line open and keep talking but I was so frustrated by her sudden abandonment that I told her to be straight and simple with me just tell me she want to break up and she said yes I can't continue with you any more because you are not treating me nice. All we had was little skirmishes now and than over the YM or emails or FaceTime. But not too serious ones. I never lost my temper with her because I admired her so much and everyday I thought she was the perfect girl for me. She was the best thing ever happened to me. I still believe I can get her back because Im sure she still love me. I just don't know what to do. I am so devastated.