Hi I was talking to a guy online and I asked him many times if he was married and always no. I later found out he is married... SO I have hs name etc should I tell his wife. I also found out he has cheated on her before. Was thinking of emailing her. I feel that is a way for me to move on. Also if that wa me I would want to know. My other concern is I don't want karma to come back to me, but I didn't know he was married what should I do...

Gee... a bit bitter, are we?

How about you look for a real live person near you rather than sitting on your butt behind a computer screeen. Unles you live in an artic outpost counting carriboo There are plenty of people around if you look for them.

And stop playing around on the internet looking for a shortcut. Nobody dating on the internet is honest about much of anything... or they would find someone local to them they can't hide the truth from.

And leave this one alone.....or any others.

Stay OUT of other people's affairs. You have no business telling his wife anything. How do you know for sure anyway he is/was having an affair.

That is no way for you to move on from anything, making trouble for people you hardly know. It isn't like you have had a long standing relationship with this Internet person.

Actually forgot to mention I did actually see him in person a couple of times

Actually forgot to mention I did actually see him in person a couple of times

So what difference does that make? It still doesn't give you the right to be a tattle tale. Stay out of it. You are asking for trouble.

It really isn't your business to tell on him. It seems that it's more like a revenge thing at this point. You should just let it go.

Hey thank you all very much. Your right leave it alone...

Hey thank you all very much. Your right leave it alone...
Good for you. You saw the light !

Yep...quietly walking away is the smartest thing to do. Revenge usually has a way of coming back at you when you least expect or need it to. Plus you never know what the other person is capable of doing if pushed.

Paybacks can be hell. You have seen him, he has seen you and you want to cause him a
Problem? Not cool at all. Even unseen better to leave it alone.