asrain
May 12, 2014, 12:39 AM
Hello. Just today I thought to write down my problem that makes me confused and don't know what to do!
I'm in relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is hot temper he get angry easily and when he gets angry he will do anything and say anything. He doesn't feel what he is doing is wrong. He is so open with girls, he is sensitive when he talks with them. He doesn't have limits when he deals with them, he will chat with them or call them. The problem the girls mostly are my friends because we are in same school. The first girl I know he used to chat with her and call her. I was angry and told him you must block her and all the girls. He did but after few days he added them again.
Then the second girl was my friend. He used to chat with her. I was OK, because I trusted them but one day my friend asked my boyfriend to do favor for her. Then he did and he told her to hide it from me. After few days he told me and he said I told her to never tell you about it. It pissed me off and I asked to break up. Then he went to my friend to tell her that I'm jealous of her and bla bla.
After that, another girl again. When I told him to make limits between him and the girl but he doesn't listen. I was so jealous we fight a lot. Then he went and told the girl which is my friend too, that I'm jealous and cause problems because of her, so he said that she should stop talking with me about him. I'm confused. He never seen himself wrong. He thinks he is right, and he never solve the problem or learn from this mistake.
How to deal with this kind of person??
I'm in relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is hot temper he get angry easily and when he gets angry he will do anything and say anything. He doesn't feel what he is doing is wrong. He is so open with girls, he is sensitive when he talks with them. He doesn't have limits when he deals with them, he will chat with them or call them. The problem the girls mostly are my friends because we are in same school. The first girl I know he used to chat with her and call her. I was angry and told him you must block her and all the girls. He did but after few days he added them again.
Then the second girl was my friend. He used to chat with her. I was OK, because I trusted them but one day my friend asked my boyfriend to do favor for her. Then he did and he told her to hide it from me. After few days he told me and he said I told her to never tell you about it. It pissed me off and I asked to break up. Then he went to my friend to tell her that I'm jealous of her and bla bla.
After that, another girl again. When I told him to make limits between him and the girl but he doesn't listen. I was so jealous we fight a lot. Then he went and told the girl which is my friend too, that I'm jealous and cause problems because of her, so he said that she should stop talking with me about him. I'm confused. He never seen himself wrong. He thinks he is right, and he never solve the problem or learn from this mistake.
How to deal with this kind of person??