Hi I'm new at this. Hope I'm in the right place. I'm about to turn 43 in May. My cycles have been normal, and like clockwork for 9 years. I am 3 weeks late. For the last couple of weeks, I have noticed frequent potty trips, more than usual discharge, and headaches. For about 5 days I feel bloated, and my breasts are tender. After our 4th child 9 years ago, hubby had a vasectomy. So though I thought doubtful, I took a hpt on Saturday, 3 days ago. Was negative. What's wrong with me? A bit worried. Should I see the doctor? If so, how much longer should I wait on symptoms to go away? Thank you in advance

Make an appointment with your doctor. It is quite possible you are experiencing peri menopause at your age. Your doctor will want to check your hormone levels to be certain.