Hi, I recently found out that my Fiancé cheated on me only a couple days ago. He told me about it and said that he was sorry for doing it and told me he will never do it again. Should I believe him and forgive him or just leave him for what he did?

How did he 'cheat'? Did he talk to a woman, have sex with a woman, take a woman for a drink? What ?


He told you about it, didn't he? So what is the problem. If you can't get through this without discussing it, then what is the point of getting married?

We can't tell you what to do. And as tickle asked, how did he cheat? There's almost infinite variety. We don't even know anything about either one of you, or how good the relationship is.

A typical response is to say you are taking time away from him to think. I'd say at least a week. Oh - and it isn't something you present as a question. You say 'At the end of this sentence, I will be turning around and walking away, and will not see you or talk to you in any form for X amount of time.'

Being we have actually had a few women here posting they actually believed watching PORN was "cheating"... it would help to clarify what the "Cheating" was. There is cheating... and then there is CHEATING.

I suspect, guys, we will not hear any more from the OP. Some don't want to actually present the facts, or be bothered doing so once they get the question out there..

I suspect, guys, we will not hear any more from the OP. Some don't want to actually present the facts, or be bothered doing so once they get the question out there..I think you are right... He must have been caught reading Playboy.