View Full Version : Im going to die in 3 months... help!!
happy dappy
Apr 16, 2014, 08:04 PM
How do I respond to being told I'm going to in 3 months?
This question sounds ridiculous but, I was crying and I'm terrified and I've been praying and I don't know what to do! I'm not allowed to travel, so that crosses out a lot of things on my bucket list. And most of my family over seas can't afford to travel here (as I live in australia and live in america) and so I only have my parents, grandparents, and siblings! I'm 16 by the way. WHAT AM I Supposed TO DO!?
PLEASE I NEED TO HEAR SOMETHING! ANYTHING! MY FAMILY IS GETTING REALLY DEPRESSED AND I can't ASK THEM RIGHT NOW COZ THEY Don't KNOW EITHER!
smoothy
Apr 16, 2014, 08:08 PM
How exactly were you told this but your parents weren't at the age of 16?
odinn7
Apr 16, 2014, 09:30 PM
Who told you that you're going to die in 3 months?
tickle
Apr 17, 2014, 02:49 AM
How is it that you know, at l6 you are going to die, because no doctor would tell you that directly unless consulting your parents.
joypulv
Apr 17, 2014, 04:47 AM
' I only have my parents, grandparents, and siblings!'
ONLY? Why are you crying for the rest of your family to go to Australia? Be glad you have the family you have, treasure them, enjoy them, and support them in their shock. As you help them, they will help you. Give them all your love so that they can give you all theirs.
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(PS: At my advanced age, I know countless people who lived many, many years past the date some doctor told them they'd die.)
Cat1864
Apr 17, 2014, 05:24 AM
Slow down and explain as best you can what is going on. We can't give advice if we aren't given information.
speedball1
Apr 19, 2014, 11:55 AM
Okay happydappy, time to tell all! What is your disease and who told you you only had three months of life? Before anyone can help you they have to have the facts. And you have given us non-. I am 87 and am in stage IV of leukemia. I count my time in months. I am 87 and you are 16 but if you are truly dying then we have something in common. I look at it this way, everybody dies we just have a better idea of when. If you would like to talk further I can be reached by private message over at the plumbing page. It always helps to talk to someone in the same boat so it you wish to talk I'm listening I want you know that this is the first time that I have discussed my health issues on this or any other site. But I feel your pain and your fear and I I feel compelled to reach out. I will be waiting over at the plumbing page for your PM. Hang in there, Tom
tickle
Apr 19, 2014, 02:17 PM
Luvya, Tom.
speedball1
Apr 20, 2014, 04:51 AM
Hi Tick.
If I were to make a quilt out of scraps life gave me it would be a crazy quilt. Too often have watched my I have watched my friends and neighbors get cancer and then set in front of the TV and wait to die. NOT ME! Even though I am legally blind and cannot drive I can still see well enough to ride a bike so I built me a choppermotor bikeand ride 10 miles everyday around the hood.
And s long as I feel that willI still have something to contribute an help people I'll still be answering questions ove at The Plumbing Page. Do you think Happy-Dappy is for real? Cheers. Tom