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123helpmepls
Apr 11, 2014, 06:12 PM
Okay so I'm a teenager in high school. My best friend is really nice and supportive but ever since she got a boyfriend, she's been ignoring me. We have conversations in and between classes but other than that, she disappears. Her boyfriend is great and they are really happy together but now, she acts differently. I don't mind having our conversations being about him and I don't mind the fact she has to spend time with him but she blocks me out. For example, last week in assembly, I was sitting next to her and her boyfriend walk in and she rudely pushes me into the next seat and makes space for him. Even her boyfriend was kind enough to switch seats so she could be in the middle. Worse thing is, when I don't talk to her, she complains that I am leaving her out of conversations with my other friends and how I ditch her when I'm with them. What should I do?

odinn7
Apr 11, 2014, 06:49 PM
You should realize that, right or wrong, in most cases this is part of "growing up". Many people get caught up in their new found bf/gf and forget about everyone else. They make this person the entire center of their lives and don't even think about anyone or anything else...this is why it is so devastating when there is a breakup at this age. It happens, get used to it.

Homegirl 50
Apr 11, 2014, 07:04 PM
That's kind of how it goes when there is a new love interest. Nothing else matters. Get used to it. It passes.

Fr_Chuck
Apr 12, 2014, 01:21 AM
This is what happens when boys and girls start dating more.