When I am aroused my penis points straight towards the ground. It also has a slight downward curve in the shaft itself, I would post a picture but for obvious reasons I won't. My main question is would this hurt my partner in bed? I know bending my erection straight up makes it uncomfortable and border line painful for me. So I can't imagine how it would feel to her, will it hurt to her? Anyway is there a non surgical way to fix this? Or is it something I have to live with? I don't want to have to ask my girlfriend to get on her hands and knees just because I can't do it (her) normally.

Don't worry about it. All erect penises are different. No it won't hurt the woman, and no, you don't have to have it altered surgically.

Is your girlfriend complaining or is this causing you pain during intercourse? If not relax and chalk it up to your own uniqueness. Its more common than you think.

Is your girlfriend complaining or is this causing you pain during intercourse? If not relax and chalk it up to your own uniqueness. Its more common than you think.


Its uncomfortable for me during intercourse. She has not commented on this. And she won't. She is that kind of person, does not want to hurt my feelings. Although maybe it really isn't hurting her. I will have to awkwardly ask. Thank you.


Don't worry about it. All erect penises are different. No it won't hurt the woman, and no, you don't have to have it altered surgically.


Are you speaking from experience? I know that is really strange to ask but still. Thank you for the assistance.

Are you speaking from experience? I know that is really strange to ask but still. Thank you for the assistance.

Well, yes, from a mature woman's viewpoint (very mature actually) I am speaking from experience! Don't worry about it, I don't think your g/f would complain in the heat of the moment. Have a good time and enjoy your young sexuality.

Pain or discomfort should be discussed with a doctor. If nothing else to ease your mind.