I would like to find my birth mom and let her know how I am doing and I would also like to know about her as well and to see if I have any brothers or sisters.

And what if your birth mom doesn't want to know about you or be contacted by you? She probably had very good reasons to give you up for adoption and may not want that chapter of her life reopened.

The best option for you is to us the adoption clearing house sites on the WEB and register your desire to reconnect. If your birth mother wants to find you, she can also register and you can reconnect that way. But you should not impose yourself on her without knowing that she wants to reconnect.

How old are you? That makes a difference in how much we can help you