Can anyone tell me where the main relay is and also the igniter and the coil on this car

Here's where the main relay is located:

Honda Accord Main Relay Location (http://techauto.te.funpic.org/mainrelaydefine.php)

Turning the ignition key on and off will make the relay click and help you locate it.

Igniter and coil are located inside the distributor. Here's how to replace:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/cars-trucks/faq-how-troubleshoot-repair-maintain-honda-civics-46563-4.html#post265896

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