kristy_boo
Mar 17, 2014, 11:31 PM
I am 17 years old I have a 2 year old and a puppy I am a full time student online I have my own place I am a soon to be wife all the chores fall back on me I have to cook as well and on top of everything I have 5 hours of home work every day. I get so angry at any one and every thing I need some quick techniques to calm and prevent stress and anger can some ne please help and please no negative comments.
Fr_Chuck
Mar 18, 2014, 12:54 AM
Sorry, no quick fixes.
First great you are keeping up with your studies
First why 5 hours of home work every day ? Is that all of the online school ?
Also, soon to be wife, do you currently live with the other person ( not sure man or women or where this is at) But if they live there, where are they at in this, if you are at school full time, they should also be helping with the housework, cooking and other activities.
But for what ever reason, you decided to go into adulthood. This is what we all do, many women work full time, have a child to care for, and then do cooking and housework.
A lot of this, and I do not mean this wrong, is your age and not used to the stress and pressures of life.
First, understand, that you have to manage your time. You have to ask for help, and tell others when things are bothering you.
tickle
Mar 18, 2014, 05:07 AM
Why would you assume we would give you negative comments? Wow a two year old and a puppy is super stressful. Cleaning up after both must be work in progress, but why burden yourself with a puppy while you have so much on her hands at the moment?
Get some of the burden taken off you and talk with your SO about sharing it. If you can't communicate with him, then it is time to re-think your situation which sounds like almost too much for one person to handle.