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sidra3589
Mar 14, 2014, 10:00 PM
Is it possible for someone to put bandish in between two people that love each other and want to get married? What effect will bandish have on their relation? How can it be removed?

ma0641
Mar 15, 2014, 06:08 AM
The only Bandish I ever heard of involves music.

Wondergirl
Mar 15, 2014, 08:44 AM
My Indian friend tells me "bandish" is the Hindi word that also means "bind together."

Has someone somehow bound you together with someone you don't want to be bound together with?

talaniman
Mar 15, 2014, 10:11 AM
Is it possible for someone to put bandish in between two people that love each other and want to get married?

Its always possible for parents and relatives to know what's best and often its expected to be so in many cultures.


What effect will bandish have on their relation?


It makes the business and desires of the effected couple life miserable as the conflicts between family wishes and the wishes of the couple at direct odds with each other.


How can it be removed?


By both partners standing strong for what they want, not what others want. That often mean going against family and relatives and the whole darn neighborhood, and society. It's a HUGE difficult challenge for any couple.