Okay I have been friends with this guy for a while now and we have had sex and everything but he flirts with me a lot when we are alone but he doesn't want anyone to know about us and one minute I think he likes me but the other mintune I don't he calls me everyday he even textes me things like I miss you he has told me he isn't ready for a relationship but at the same time told one of my friends that if he were to have a relationship it would be with me and he is very flirty with me when we are alone and even when we are not other people see it but what should I do I don't want to show him how much I care cause I came out of a 9 year relatonship and been hurt before and he knows that?

okay I have been friends with this guy for a while now and we have had sex and everything but he flirts with me alot when we are alone but he doesn't want anyone to know about us and one minute I think he likes me but the other mintune I don't he calls me everyday he even textes me things like I miss you he has told me he isn't ready for a realtionship but at the same time told one of my friends that if he were to have a relationship it would be with me and he is very flirty with me when we are alone and even when we are not other people see it but what should I do I don't want to show him how much I care cause I came out of a 9 year relatonship and been hurt before and he knows that??
man your problem is to complecated ^__^i know what you mean it hurt when someone breakheart... I think that guy just want to play with your heart you might regret this... I know people like him... you find more info about his past maybe... he hd already done this before... or mabe I was wrong it will turn just fine...

okay I have been friends with this guy for a while now and we have had sex and everything but he flirts with me alot when we are alone but he doesn't want anyone to know about us and one minute I think he likes me but the other mintune I don't he calls me everyday he even textes me things like I miss you he has told me he isn't ready for a realtionship but at the same time told one of my friends that if he were to have a relationship it would be with me and he is very flirty with me when we are alone and even when we are not other people see it but what should I do I don't want to show him how much I care cause I came out of a 9 year relatonship and been hurt before and he knows that?? I don`t think he likes you becoz if he likes and not love you then also must have introduce you as a good friend to others and talking about sex that was with your yes and you like him that's why you let him touch your body and is that OK then lit the sex go on and when you find a guy you likes you then it would be the right time to be de pated and there is a g8 saying marry to those who love you not to those who you love sam ka game that's my name

okay I have been friends with this guy for a while now and we have had sex and everything but he flirts with me alot when we are alone but he doesn't want anyone to know about us and one minute I think he likes me but the other mintune I don't he calls me everyday he even textes me things like I miss you he has told me he isn't ready for a realtionship but at the same time told one of my friends that if he were to have a relationship it would be with me and he is very flirty with me when we are alone and even when we are not other people see it but what should I do I don't want to show him how much I care cause I came out of a 9 year relatonship and been hurt before and he knows that??


Seeing as you said you have been in a 9 yr relationship I gather you arnt a teen!
However you still have feelings, if you are prepared to just enjoy the ride with the guy then go for it with no expectations, because you may get hurt.
He does like you, otherwise he wouldn't have sleep with you.
Have you ever asked spoke to him about your situation together, not ask him directly if you 2 are a couple, but discuss what you want from each other?
Take it from there, after all you need to know where you stand.

Good Luck :)