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kissableteen
Feb 18, 2005, 09:09 AM
Ok Here it goes, Im 16 years old and still a virgin and I really want to have sex but I made a promise to myself to wait until marriage to have sex. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and I really do want to have sex with him. I have no idea what to do will someone please help me :confused:

Jogan2090
Feb 21, 2005, 03:03 PM
Hey Kissable teen,

Are you sure you want to have sex with your boyfriend? How old is he and how long have you been going out with him?

I think at your age, it's a little risky to be having sex. But, if you really really want to.

I think it's important to be aware of STD's, (Sexually Transmitted Disease) and teenage pregnancies, So, I think you should familarize yourself with the use of protections, such as condoms, etc.
You might want to familarize yourself with protections, and know how to properly use them.

You might want to have a talk with your boyfriend about it. Talk things over, and make sure he uses the protections, and tell him to take it slow, start slowly and so on..

But most of all, make sure he's not the type of guy who'll take advantage of you.

Beenkie
Jun 6, 2005, 03:32 PM
Listen, I know what you mean and I too promised myself I'd wait and I realized I was going to keep that promise b.c of MY PROMISE... n if it really is a promise u'd keep it... n I kept mine and when I did he got mad at me b.c I refused him, but that was only b.c I knew I was doing the wrong thing... n today he wants me back... n how would you know if you were going to be wit him when your older you don't know you don't know where u'll be... but I am going to keep my promise to myself and if it really is a promise to yourself you should keep it...