I had sex with my boyfriend day before yesterday. He couldn't use condoms, because they don't come in his size. I took an ipill within 2 hours of the act. Since today evening, I have a very bad urgency to urinate every few minutes. The amount is very very small that comes but it is paining in my vagina right after urinating and there is a few traces of blood! Please help me to know what might be going on? And what should I do.

They don't come in his size? Lol! Is this what he told you?

You should probably be seen by a doctor and checked for STDs.

Could also be some kind of bladder/urinary infection.

I agree with Busymomma2013.

What a crock that was... there isn't a human walking this planet that a condom isn't made that will fit. No matter how large or how small.

I can take a REGUALR size condom and pull it over my head and inflate it almost 3 feet long.

You do need to see a doctor and get tested... who knows what he gave you... or how many others he's told that lie to before you.

Sounds like a UTI. However, I pills are not for routine use. If you are going to be sexually active you need to take further steps.

So you believed him, did you? Seems to me like it's time to do 2 things...go to the doctor to get that problem taken care of and find a new boyfriend that doesn't lie to you and use you.

Urinary tract infection. A urinal is what a man uses ro urinate in.

Yes, better get checked out.

This can be candidiasis or urinary tract infection they are common when you have sex with full bladder . Its better to keep your bladder empty when you are going to have sex.

"They don't come in my size" is my new favorite excuse.
It used to be "Once I get an erection, it will be painful and never go down unless I have sex." Told to a friend of mine when she was young and naïve.

I got the test done today and found out that I have bladder infection and mild cystitis! The doc gave me antibiotics for 5 days. The ultrasound of my abdomen was normal with bladder infection and mild cystitis. Should I be worried about anything. The meds are helping a bit already.

If the meds are helping you shouldn't be worried.

I took an Ipill 2 hours after having unprotected sex! Will I get pregnant? And I have a bladder infection, and one of the things that the gyno gave me is Citro soda, which after drinking yesterday, I had a severe stomach pain and back pain. Is this common while on antibiotics for bladder infection? Since next morning, I had no stomach pain, but a very little back pain! Should I be worried?

The ipill should work, and you may not have needed the Citro while on antibiotics. Are you in South Africa? Did you get regular birth control, so that you don't have to take an ipill every time you have sex?

Agree the I pill should work, (should) it is not 100 percent effective, so pregnancy is of course possible. You should not be taking too many I pill, they are for emergancy only. They can have many side effects. They could ever be causing the pain.

You need to follow up with doctor, if pain continues

As was said, condoms can stretch to fit anyone anyhow. The thing is to find one that fits him well. I have that problem. Certain brands or styles just kind pinch the wrong way and aren't comfortable to the point of losing the erection. The brand/style I use now works for me. It just took a while to find.

Nazia,

That is some poor advice. First, from what she said in her post, yes, it is possible that it was caused by sexual contact. Second, to tell someone that drinking lots of water could cause what might be a UTI is irresponsible. The only way to be sure to cure something like that is with medical attention. Of course, it is always safest to actually be diagnosed by a real doctor rather than someone on the internet. Please be more careful in answering questions like this as the only true answer is to be checked by a doctor.

Odinn, she didn't say drinking lots of water could cause it; she said drinking lots of water could flush it out, which is good advice. What is not good advice is telling her to buy 'sachets' of something or other to cure it. Curing a UTI is possible with a good seven day antibiotic and maintaining with a cranberry supplement or cranberry juice.

Seeking medical attention at the first of a urinary tract infection (unable to urinate, stinging irritation from urethra) is best thing to do. Nothing else will work.

My mistake...I wrote cause when I meant cure. the best way to cure something like that is with medical attention.

Many cultures around the world use sachets made from herbs and other things as a treatment for many illnesses. Aromatherapy is an accepted treatment. Me, I head to the doctors.

Just sitting here shocked that there are actually women out there that would buy the "I'm so huge there's no condom on the market that will fit" line.

I remember sex education in a Catholic High School, in 1988! The teacher took a condom and put it on her arm. The whole arm, fist, wrist, all the way to the elbow, and she could have gone further she could have fit her other arm as well.

So unless his penis is the size of your entire arm, he's a lying little player with a really big ego. But his ego is the only thing that's big on him.

Educate yourself. The next guy that tells you his penis is too big to wear a condom, your response should be "Oh, well I'll have to pass then. There's no way I can handle a penis that's 5 feet long and 3 feet wide".

Maybe all of the condoms are too big?

Maybe all of the condoms are too big?

LMAO! Finger condom time! :)

I will agree, and I see the posts were merged.

Do not believe him, that condoms do not fit, he is not much of a boyfriend, to lie to you. You need to seriously consider this relationship, he just did not want to use a condom and was not concerned over pregnancy,

Just sitting here shocked that there are actually women out there that would buy the "I'm so huge there's no condom on the market that will fit" line.

I remember sex education in a Catholic High School, in 1988! The teacher took a condom and put it on her arm. The whole arm, fist, wrist, all the way to the elbow, and she could have gone further she could have fit her other arm as well.

I agree with this completely.

What I want to say, I think would be best left for an analogy. I have a buddy whose has huge hands. He's been in manual labour for a long time. They're not abnormally huge, but they got some size to them. Hard to find a good pair of winter gloves. Now for his occupation he needs to wear rubber gloves. Just makes it easier to no leave finger prints or scratches on the car parts he's handling. He has used the xs sized gloves to make balloons and knows that they can stretch quite a bit. He can put them on and they'll stretch around his hand, but they're tight and confining. The rolled up latex at the cuff tends to cut off the flow of blood to his hands and they start turning purple. That is why he is using the XL gloves. He needs to so that it protects his hand but doesn't cut off circulation.

Condoms can stretch to fabulous sizes but if the aren't comfortable because parts of it are too tight, than it can be considered too small. It is a length but girth issue. I will be the first to say that I have a bit of an ego. I also know that Trojan regulars then to be too tight at the base of my shaft and it's uncomfortable to the point that I lose my erection. I don't care if I can fit it over my face, because it surely can, but it is too small for my junk. I had to go use the Trojan large sizes. They have a better fit and I don't have issue with lose my erection in them.

There are condoms that will work, they just need to be found, but it is completely plausible that the condoms that he's tried won't work for him. It might not all be ego.