Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and I know he wants it.. and I want it too but I'm so embarrassed... if I take off my panties and I have white or clear stuff in them he's going to be like wdf lets just put it this way.. I won't be able to take a shower before we have sex and I won't be able to go to the bathroom to splash and cleanit up... has anyone been in this situation before?? What did you do??

Since this is in Child & Teen Health, I am going to ask how old you are before giving advice on this subject. How old are you?

Don't date children or have sex without even knowing about it.

You don't stop discharge. If you have no idea how your body works you have no business having sex.