Hi, well one day this girl approaches me at a friends family get together. Later that day she contacts me. I'm like OK cool we can be friends and we start talking and its going great. Then we start dating after a month or so. Our relationship was like Romeo & Juliet. We kept our relationship a secret until the 3rd month and a family member of mine catches us kissing and slowly tells everyone. Everyone tried to break us apart but we wouldn't budge. The only person who gave us a chance was her mom. Her mom helped us sneak around to see each other because she said I was a good, respectful guy.

Lets skip ahead to the 6th month. We broke up because we couldn't see each other as much as we wanted and I was heart broken. I tried everything to get her back but nothing worked, she then started dating this other guy in her class only because she had a bunch of classes with him and everyone knows if you're forced to spend time with someone you're going to start to develop feelings for them. But anyway they date for like 2 months or less, then she moves to a new guy that last like about 2 weeks, and by this time I'm still madly in love with her but I'm trying to get over her but I just can't.

Then 3 or 4 months pass during said time she's with this one guy. Randomly one day during said relationship she contacts me and I'm thinking, why are you talking to me? You ignored me all this time (I tried to contact her after our break up, not enough to annoy her but enough to let her know I'm missing her) but at the same time I'm happy she contacted me. We talk all day and she's telling me she's sorry and she misses me and I'm saying it back because I feel the same way. Then we get to the end of the conversation and she says I love you and I say it back (shes still with her bf) the very next day she breaks up with him, and she tells me that same moment.

Now we've talked through text and phone calls for over two weeks now. We both tell each other we want to be with one another but we decide to take it slow so our families won't get all crazy again. We go on our first real date together (every other date a friend or family member was with us). We're on a double date so not much different but at first its awkward, and then we get comfortable with each other again (we tell each other everything I can't stretch that enough, I mean EVERYTHING). Now the dates over and we're home now. I text her and we talk for a few minutes. Then she ask me can we talk tomorrow because tonight reminded her of her ex, she said she had fun though. I'm like that's fine I understand you just got out of kind of long relationship. We say our goodnights and I love you's.

I text her the next day and she's still not in the mood to talk. So I give her a week you know, to think so that all her will be in our relationship. I try to text her and now she's ignoring me. Then I text her later and she says she can't talk she's busy. She says that for the next week and then I ask her, does she want to see a movie and she's like yeah, I don't know if I can though, but I'll see. Then the day we planned to hang out is here and she cancels to hang out with her cousin that she sees like all the time. I ask her why is she ignoring me? Did I do something wrong? She says I don't know and I say oh well text me when you can love me.

We don't talk for another week and at this point my hearts starting to break because I miss her. So I text her and ask can we talk, she says sure. I ask her does she not want me in her life anymore and I tell her how I feel about her. I love her but no matter what I say or do she will never know how much I love her truly.

Now it's been half a month since I said that. She never replied. She hasn't said anything. I texted her trying to talk, to talk all this out, but she still ignores me. I'm lost will someone please help me. I really do love her but I don't know if I should give up or keep fighting for her. I want her in my life and the thought of losing her tears my heart apart. I don't know what to do. I've been waiting to talk to my grandma because grandmas are usually good with this stuff, but I can never get her alone. I tried to set up a day where the girl and I can talk and I can put my heart on the line in person because it will mean way more, but its hard when she ignores me.

Help please and thank you ahead of time.

You need to forget about her. She is probably back with her boyfriend. She would talk to you if she wanted to. Time to have facts

I would have left her alone after she dumped me. Then would never have gone along with the take it slow crap after, and now you should take the hint and leave her alone NOW!! Sorry guy but obviously she wants nothing else to do with you and threatens your dignity, and self respect by ignoring the obvious.

While you are in misery she is doing her thing. You put so much into her words, that you ignore her actions, that don't match, never did. The more you chase, the faster and further she runs AND is ignoring you now. Help yourself by getting over her by leaving her alone.

You are asking for more heart break if you don't.

Yes, first keeping it a secret was a bad idea, next why did your family not like her and you dating ?
How old are the two of you ? Makes a big difference

Why would her mom help you sneak around, not a good thing for a parent to do.

But it has not worked, she dumped you. If she had really wanted you, she happy with time you had.

Move on, she has

You know if you are acting this needy and obssessive when you are around her, she probably finds that not attractive at all. Time to move on and leave this one alone.