My hubbys mistress have been giving details to him about another guy.He told her that the following week we were going to Florida.Well yesterday after she had left church he texted her giving her a compliment.Sayin he missed her.She had already gone. He was telling her about something that happened when she left.
So she text back wow what happened but she also let it be known she was 30 mind away and I guess he figured she went to the guys house.He never replied what happened.
So next day she text back. He said ugh back to work again.She said huh? He said he wished he could go back to Florida.
You see he letting her k ow he'd rather ne away with me right?

Sure, sure...keep telling yourself that.

So you don't agree.why would he keep rubbing in to her about Florida?

So he's free to find another one now?

During an argument my husband's mistress as she tries to break off their affair.Man tells her I wished it didn't have to be like this but I still got love for you.

Here we go again.

You seem to think you know a lot about their relationship. It seems she is the one trying to distance herself from him. Not the other way around. He appears to be trying to hold on to her. Is he trying to hold on to you with even a quarter of he energy he puts into their relationship?

He apparently loves her. Does he ever say he loves you?

Of coarse and by the way he's using her

During an argument my husband's mistress as she tries to break off their affair.Man tells her I wished it didn't have to be like this but I still got love for you.

That doesn't sound like he is using her.

How come its been 4 yrs?

After reading many of your questions, and answering them as best as I can, I have come to a few conclusions:

A) We will NEVER be able to answer your questions well enough to help you
B) You don't really want help
C) You are very misguided and confused about relationships
D) You both cheat, both accept that you cheat, therefore you will never want to change

Why keep asking these cryptic relationship questions?

You need to accept his mistress and be happy he has someone.
Perhaps it is time for a new one, men change mistress from time to time.
Perhaps you can help pick a new one out, often it helps if it is a closer friend of yours.

Sounds like this last one was too much drama, so another one, who will be more private is needed anyway.

So your husbands lover has found another lover. That's the jist of this post?

Why are you privy to all his communications with her? This is his mistress, not yours. Butt out! If she leaves him for another man, let her. She's the smart one. He'll find someone else, and you'll be there, at home, wondering why you're not enough, and why he doesn't love you enough to stop looking for someone better.

Hopefully one day he'll find the woman he's looking for, and he'll divorce you, and marry her, then you'll know what everyone else knows, that he doesn't love you at all. After all, if you were enough, if he really loved you, he wouldn't have to be with anyone else. But for now it seems you can keep the husband, have that status, but he's still looking to upgrade.

Psst....Alty....apparently from her other posts, she has someone on the side as well. They seem to be made for each other.