How would you deal with it and what would you do?

I go back to doing what I did before I met this person who broke my heart and start doing my thing all over again and do it even better. Heart break is a temporary thing that heals with time like a broke bone. Until the healing is doe and you feel better, it's kind of miserable at first, but you get tired of crying and feeling sorry for yourself, and you get back to finding friends, family, and activities that you enjoy.

That's what I do. What are YOU going to do?

A broken heart hurts like hell. We've all been there, and we all remember that hurt.

I'm married now, so I haven't had to deal with a broken heart for a very long time. Since I was 19. But what I did back then was surround myself with friends, concentrate on work, go to the gym, go out with friends, cry a bit, write down how I feel when I was overwhelmed, and move on.

Looking back, each breakup was painful, but I'm so thankful for them. They lead me to my husband, and he's the one that I was meant to be with. If I hadn't had my heart broken, I never would have met him. So another thing I'd do, is to look forward to the future. Someone better will come along, someone that will make you forget all about this recent heart break.

You surround yourself with friends, you find things you enjoy doing and do them go about your daily life and find new joy in it. In time it fades.

Been there... you think you can't go on but you do. Time works... no contact works.. it takes awhile but you will feel much better in time I did...

I'm there right now.

Surround yourself with friends, have nice long baths, exercise, don't contact the person, go out, get your hair done, buy some new clothes...

This is what I'm being told. But I can't actually bring myself to do any of these things right now. I am sitting in my pyjamas at 2pm on this. I am supposed to be studying for an exam that I've got tomorrow, also I've got an assignment due today, I missed a doctor's appointment and I really need to shower. I feel like CRAP!

But in saying this, it's not my first break up. I got over it before. I will get over it again. It doesn't stop the pain but at least I know it doesn't last forever at this level. It does fade with time.

You break off contact with that person, put away any photos, stop following them on Facebook or QQ or what ever you follow them on.

You go on with life, you don't miss appointments, it hurts, but locking yourself away is just making it worst