The story is I met a guy in late September and things were going good. We became boyfriend and girlfriend then last month he suddenly disappeared. I had him on my Facebook and instagram and he recently started 2 new jobs. I tried calling him and either he wouldn't pick up or when he did he said he would call me back but never did. I just moved on and talked to other guys which I still am right now.

What hurts me is that I found out through Facebook that he has a girlfriend. I saw him kissing another woman which the girl had a pic of both of them and her friends or who ever they are commented on the picture of them kissing. I feel like crying right now but at the same time I don't. I'm so shocked and I see he just recently added this girl on his page.

Chin up! It's a good thing that the relationship lasted only a few months. You had not yet had a chance to really get to know him. That he likely had someone else on the go, while he was dating you, says much about his character.

A good lesson learned. He was also a coward by not being honest and upfront with you, and again, better to know this about a person, sooner rather than later.

Yeah at least I know I deserve better and hope to find a good man.

You ever think you get into relationships too fast and then find out these guys are duds?

Too much, too fast, crash and burn.

@talaniman (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/talaniman.html)- Yes it was fast. I really thought though that he was a good man because he seemed so sweet and sincere about wanting to be a part of my life. I thought too he was the kind of person who falls in love fast but I was also cautious but I guess I let my guard down too soon.

Is this the same guy in your other posts, the ones in November where you broke up with him, and then the other one where you were concerned about his drinking?

Sounds like you're lucky to be rid of him.

@Alty's- Yep this was the one with the drinking. I'm glad he is not part of my life anymore. I know I deserve better and hope to find a decent guy

First, why are you looking at his Facebook, what about unfriending him if you really going to move on.

And moving on means you stop calling, stop emailing, and stop looking at face book.

So he was kissing someone, guess that explains why he did not call.

@Fr_Chuck (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/fr_chuck.html)- I did unfriend him on facebook and got rid of anything else of him.