I need help my family to me is falling apart I have had an uncle who was like father to me and I have to sons who has a life threating illness and now my aunt who took over from my mother when she died is dying on top of that I am helping one of my sick sons through the courts to keep intouch with his child now my other son who has no illness ex partner is keeping my grandson away from me because him and her can not get on I am at the end of my will power and do not know what to do

You might want to consider counseling to help you deal with everything that's going on.