Firstly, I am sorry for my bad English. I am 25 years old and my boyfriend is 29 years old. I have been in a relationship with him for nearly 7 years. He was my first love and the only one in my life. I love him so much and he's my everything. I have always been loyal and have done everything for him like washing, cooking and helping him with other things. For e.g. when he said" I am hungy" The food is in front of him. No matter how busy or tired I was he was my first priority, and both of our parents know about us.

I have dreamt that I would get married with him one day. He cheated on me 3 years ago but I forgave him and took him back. He promised me that he would never do like that again. We started to talk about getting married 5 months ago but his only sister got divorced with her husband and she told my boyfriend not to rush about getting marriage. She told him that marriage is not easy and warned him like you will become like me if you get married. So he started to act like he didn't want to get married with me. He told me that he wasn't sure if he want to marry me because our sex life wasn't great. We hardly made love after 2 years of our relationship. I always feel shy whenever I make love with him and he also mention he is not happy with my look as I put on weight.

He met with a girl on the internet 3 months ago and he's madly in love with her. Now he chats with her in front of me. The girl is from USA and we live in London. He even changed his facebook's status as engaged with that girl. That girl is only 17 years old and her naked photo is all over the websites. She sent my boyfriend her naked photos, dirty videos of her and messages everyday. Now he is worried that girl will leave him one day because she is 10 years younger than him and that girl always chat with other guys on line. My boyfriend said he wants to break up with me because he can't love me as a girlfriend. He said he will look after me and take care of me as a friend.

How could he do this to me? I know I deserve more than this because I have always good to him. What should I do? I know I am being so stupid but I don't want to break up with him. I want to leave him but I can't do that because he is everything to me and I love him so much. Is there anything I can do to get him back? Or I want him to regret and learn his lesson? Please tell me what I should do.

You should not settle for such a low life and dump him. He doesn't want you. He's even created a love in his head about a girl on the internet that he will probably never meet. You deserve better than this and there are better men than him out there.

I have to agree with Oliver. You have made him your everything and served him like a slave for years and now he dumps you. You do deserve better and must break this unhealthy addiction to such an underserving fellow. The best revenge is to heal and get a life that makes you happy without him, and be on a better path than you are with him.

Maybe you don't see it now, but your time as a disrespected slave are over. Still hurts but you can heal and grow from this and do better and get what you deserve.