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joy2theworld
Dec 17, 2013, 08:37 PM
Recently I started talking to this guy, 2-3 weeks ago. There is this website called ask.fm where you can ask people questions and randomly one day I looked and I was in one of his answers. Someone had asked him who the hottest girls at his school were and there I was. Then he texted me and we started talking. At a dance the following Friday we slow danced but that's it. Afterwards he texted me and apologized for not trying to kiss me because he was nervous. The next week there was another dance and this time we did kiss. I invited him over to my house the next Saturday and we cuddled and watched a movie and made out a little. But now on ask I am not in his list anymore, and he got a question saying is the girl you have your eyes on in your top 10 list and he said yes. We are supposed to hang out on Friday. Should we? Idk what's going on, I don't mean to sound like a stalker or like I'm over thinking things, I'm just really confused.
talaniman
Dec 17, 2013, 08:47 PM
You met him online so ask him what he means by his online comments.
Homegirl 50
Dec 17, 2013, 08:49 PM
You two are not exclusive. He has not asked you to be his girl. Go out, have fun but you might want to chill on the making out. He is not serious about you. You two don't know each other that well.
Alty
Dec 17, 2013, 10:19 PM
This is why I hate online romances. One wrong word, one wrong post, and it's all blown out of proportion. The written word is the hardest form of communication.
If you like him, talk to him, tell him how you feel, and then start having a real relationship, leave the online stuff to posting jokes, pictures, and fun stories. Romance and online don't mix.
Fr_Chuck
Dec 17, 2013, 10:35 PM
He may like several girls, nothing wrong with that. And he may be dating a few. He my even have his eyes on one special girl, but never go out with her.
You need to put less concern on a silly web site and more concern about what is happening, in real life.