cats12345
Dec 12, 2013, 12:03 PM
I've seen where people have posted questions about men no longer being attracted to them and I think I am having a similar problem. Try not to judge me too much, even though this may seem silly to you it's serious to me.
I have known my boyfriend for 2 years. I met him online and for the whole first year that I knew him we were the best of friends. We talked non-stop and played video games together all the time. In July of last year I discovered that he had been having feelings for me for 6 months. I had only thought of him as more than a friend a few times, but in the past I had developed little crushes on friends and it always ended badly so I ignored it. We started dating and while we still haven't met it was extremely sexual pretty early on. I think within the first month I had started asking him for inappropriate photos and yadda yadda.
Anyway, he just recently moved to a different country for work and we've been talking SIGNIFICANTLY less because of the new time difference + him working everyday. Also he NEVER acts interested in me sexually. Used to we would get on webcam to talk and I'd be able to turn him on very easily, but he doesn't seem interested in me at ALL lately. I don't know, I think maybe he's been fulfilling his sexual urges by masturbating without me, and by the time he finally talks to me it's after work and he's tired. I believe he still loves me and most of the time I feel like I love him too, but I constantly feel unattractive and unwanted and it's making me miserable.
What should I do to fix this?
I have known my boyfriend for 2 years. I met him online and for the whole first year that I knew him we were the best of friends. We talked non-stop and played video games together all the time. In July of last year I discovered that he had been having feelings for me for 6 months. I had only thought of him as more than a friend a few times, but in the past I had developed little crushes on friends and it always ended badly so I ignored it. We started dating and while we still haven't met it was extremely sexual pretty early on. I think within the first month I had started asking him for inappropriate photos and yadda yadda.
Anyway, he just recently moved to a different country for work and we've been talking SIGNIFICANTLY less because of the new time difference + him working everyday. Also he NEVER acts interested in me sexually. Used to we would get on webcam to talk and I'd be able to turn him on very easily, but he doesn't seem interested in me at ALL lately. I don't know, I think maybe he's been fulfilling his sexual urges by masturbating without me, and by the time he finally talks to me it's after work and he's tired. I believe he still loves me and most of the time I feel like I love him too, but I constantly feel unattractive and unwanted and it's making me miserable.
What should I do to fix this?