luv13
Dec 8, 2013, 11:56 AM
Hello I am new to this site and thought I'd give it a go and see what everyone else out there thinks of my situation.
I have been married for twelve years and have a son with my husband. Me and him have always had our ups and downs, but lately I've been having a gnawing suspicion in my gut. My husband spends a lot of time with one particular friend. He is always talking on the phone with this person at least a few times a week and for at least 20 min or more. Mind you this is from a man that has always said that he doesn't like speaking on the phone and when he does its quick and to the point. We never speak on the phone and when we do its only for the need to know info, like if I'm telling him to pick up our son or something, only for a couple minutes. Do you think that's odd that he enjoys talking to this friend so much?
It seems like every other weekend he is hanging out with this guy, also every time we argue he goes to this friends house! Every time! Also we have had anal sex before and he'll usually will ask every now and then for it. But lately he hasn't brought it up or anything.. Hmmmm could he be getting that itch scratched some where else?? I'm just starting to find it real odd that he spends sooo much time with one particular person and searching on sites I see that it is kind of weird for a married man to do this. What do you think?
I have been married for twelve years and have a son with my husband. Me and him have always had our ups and downs, but lately I've been having a gnawing suspicion in my gut. My husband spends a lot of time with one particular friend. He is always talking on the phone with this person at least a few times a week and for at least 20 min or more. Mind you this is from a man that has always said that he doesn't like speaking on the phone and when he does its quick and to the point. We never speak on the phone and when we do its only for the need to know info, like if I'm telling him to pick up our son or something, only for a couple minutes. Do you think that's odd that he enjoys talking to this friend so much?
It seems like every other weekend he is hanging out with this guy, also every time we argue he goes to this friends house! Every time! Also we have had anal sex before and he'll usually will ask every now and then for it. But lately he hasn't brought it up or anything.. Hmmmm could he be getting that itch scratched some where else?? I'm just starting to find it real odd that he spends sooo much time with one particular person and searching on sites I see that it is kind of weird for a married man to do this. What do you think?