brokendown1
Dec 3, 2013, 03:19 PM
I got into a relationship with a 35 year old woman 2 years ago. I was also 35, We had sex after the second date and I automatically said to myself that she wasn't marriage material and decided to just have fun for a few months. Not sure if I was wrong to think that an easy girl is not marriage material. After 6 months we were still having fun! At that time I was madly in love with her. She was also in love with me. Later I found that she was still keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend with the purpose of going back to him if things between us didn't work out! I was devastated, but I decided to forgive her after she promised that she would stop talking to him. She made the case that she is getting older and wants to have kids and if we don't work out, she doesn't want to go out there to meet anyone new, so she would settle down for the next best thing!
Another year past by and I suspected that she was still having conversations with her ex, so I installed an app on her phone to see who she was texting and calling. Now I can see the messages that she sends him and how many times she calls him but I can't see the incoming calls and texts because of an app that she installed on her phone! They communicate at least 2 to 3 times per week! The messages are not telling me that they still see each other but she calls him baby and boo boo! I also found that she has another guy on her phones block list.
So she has at least 2 guys that she talks to and hides from me. Yesterday she sends a text to her girlfriend telling her that she doesn't know why she gets bored of men every 2 years! And that the guy that she's with now (me) asked her about having kids and she wanted to throw up. Meanwhile, she had been asking me to move in together and has been pressuring me to have kids for 1 year! The only thing that I can think is that she's been with too many men and she now has a need to start with a new relationship every few years!
Are all easy girls like this?
Another year past by and I suspected that she was still having conversations with her ex, so I installed an app on her phone to see who she was texting and calling. Now I can see the messages that she sends him and how many times she calls him but I can't see the incoming calls and texts because of an app that she installed on her phone! They communicate at least 2 to 3 times per week! The messages are not telling me that they still see each other but she calls him baby and boo boo! I also found that she has another guy on her phones block list.
So she has at least 2 guys that she talks to and hides from me. Yesterday she sends a text to her girlfriend telling her that she doesn't know why she gets bored of men every 2 years! And that the guy that she's with now (me) asked her about having kids and she wanted to throw up. Meanwhile, she had been asking me to move in together and has been pressuring me to have kids for 1 year! The only thing that I can think is that she's been with too many men and she now has a need to start with a new relationship every few years!
Are all easy girls like this?