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male22first
Mar 30, 2007, 06:11 PM
About 7 years ago my friend ans I stopped talking and went to different schools and have not seen each other since. He and I we very close friends, we spent every day together for at least 5 years. We had started to fool around with each other rubbing sucking and went through the motions of sex without penetration. When this started we were only 11and didn't know the ins ands out but continued doing it until we went our separate ways.

Well now I think about it constantly and want to do it all over again but I am not sure if I should even try and contact him. If I did contact him I wouldn't come right out with it I would catch up and hopefully become close friends again. What should I do?

herringelizabeth
Mar 30, 2007, 06:24 PM
Well, I think you should contact him.and say,"look I still love you and miss you, I understand if your dating, but if your not lets get together again.

Fr_Chuck
Mar 30, 2007, 06:32 PM
Yes contact him, Sadly I do find that memory is often better than real fact But what the heck he may be married with 2 kids, and you just say you were looking up old friends and you add him to your christmas card list. He may be many thngs but you won't know until you contact him

Parajr
Mar 30, 2007, 06:35 PM
It is always good to at least see what they are up to. It can't hurt to contact an old friend. Like Fr_Chuck said he may have a new life now, but you will never know until you contact him

jenniesue
Apr 18, 2007, 10:27 AM
Shld I contact the love of my life? He said he want to take a break at least 2 months and its been 5 weeks now..

DEVRAHAMILTON
Jul 24, 2007, 08:40 PM
Make conact... life is short.

Jiser
Jul 25, 2007, 01:24 AM
Erm, experimenting is probably quite common. In fact I still have a good friend from the age of 5 who I see now and again sometimes every week and we 'did' things... Does not mean I am gay. I am not at all. I did not see my current best friend for 3 years and then I saw him randomly in a restaurant with my ex. As said above life is to short. Contact him, meet up for a pint of beer!

talaniman
Jul 25, 2007, 02:43 AM
Please quit fantasing, and get on with real life. You may have sucked him long ago, and may want more, but the truth is you both have moved on. Why disrupt his life with your fantasy? Sounds better on paper than it really is. True you only live once, but is it worth the drama just to see if someone still taste good? Deal with your real life. Let him deal with his.