2scared
Nov 18, 2013, 04:41 PM
** I understand you guys are not lawyers, but if you have any advice or information, please don't hesitate to post.
I have been in a child custody case with my ex for about 3 years... his sister called cps out of spite and it has started a tornado affect of nonsense. I can't explain it to myself, my family, or anyone else. My ex was bad into drugs but was the money maker in our relationship. He is in jail right now for 4 charges.. including child endangerment... If that tells you anything. He is 7 years older than I (I am 24).. And I had just lost my mom and in a bad place when I met him. He and his mom have teamed up to to make my life hell. To get to the point, I got away from him, moved in with my dad... got clean and got a new job. I was doing SO good until last Monday. I went out and ran I told friends who I have alienated due to my embarrassing situation... They all are good people, with good jobs.. But had a little cocaine. I messed up.. and I did about 5 lines of it. I will NEVER understand why. Probably trying to be cool.. I absolutely hate myself right now and am reaching out for any advice. I just got an email from my lawyer that was a PDF of a court order asked to be sign by my exes moms attorney. If it all gets signed by the DA and whoever, it is ordered that I take a 10 panel urine screening and a 10 panel hair follicle. Within 24 hrs of everyone's signatures. I don't know how long it takes to get everyone to sign it... there is about 6 people that need to agree to it... including my attorney. It includes a urine EtG alcohol( which I don't understand why I wouldn't be able to have alcohol in my system) but that is what is says. And a urine/ hair screening for methadone... I don't even know what that is. I have found some people online who claim to have passed a hair follicle by letting astringent, laundry detergent, and other stuff soak in hair 6 times a day as many days you can before test. I am also willing to cut my hair Very short if it will help. I also don't know if I should find a way to not take it. I haven't told my lawyer I messed up because he is court appointed and I'm scared. Before Monday I really didn't even drink either, maybe 7 times a month. But after Monday, I have been stressing so bad and drinking beer almost every night at home. My main question is do you think it's worth me risking to take or should I tell my lawyer I messed up? Or should I put off as long as I can... Willing to take a trip across states to " see my family for the holidays". Before this I have been at very hearing, vocal in trying to get my son back from my exs mom, I just can't believe I comprised everything I have worked for for 1 night of bs. Again, any info is appreciated.
I have been in a child custody case with my ex for about 3 years... his sister called cps out of spite and it has started a tornado affect of nonsense. I can't explain it to myself, my family, or anyone else. My ex was bad into drugs but was the money maker in our relationship. He is in jail right now for 4 charges.. including child endangerment... If that tells you anything. He is 7 years older than I (I am 24).. And I had just lost my mom and in a bad place when I met him. He and his mom have teamed up to to make my life hell. To get to the point, I got away from him, moved in with my dad... got clean and got a new job. I was doing SO good until last Monday. I went out and ran I told friends who I have alienated due to my embarrassing situation... They all are good people, with good jobs.. But had a little cocaine. I messed up.. and I did about 5 lines of it. I will NEVER understand why. Probably trying to be cool.. I absolutely hate myself right now and am reaching out for any advice. I just got an email from my lawyer that was a PDF of a court order asked to be sign by my exes moms attorney. If it all gets signed by the DA and whoever, it is ordered that I take a 10 panel urine screening and a 10 panel hair follicle. Within 24 hrs of everyone's signatures. I don't know how long it takes to get everyone to sign it... there is about 6 people that need to agree to it... including my attorney. It includes a urine EtG alcohol( which I don't understand why I wouldn't be able to have alcohol in my system) but that is what is says. And a urine/ hair screening for methadone... I don't even know what that is. I have found some people online who claim to have passed a hair follicle by letting astringent, laundry detergent, and other stuff soak in hair 6 times a day as many days you can before test. I am also willing to cut my hair Very short if it will help. I also don't know if I should find a way to not take it. I haven't told my lawyer I messed up because he is court appointed and I'm scared. Before Monday I really didn't even drink either, maybe 7 times a month. But after Monday, I have been stressing so bad and drinking beer almost every night at home. My main question is do you think it's worth me risking to take or should I tell my lawyer I messed up? Or should I put off as long as I can... Willing to take a trip across states to " see my family for the holidays". Before this I have been at very hearing, vocal in trying to get my son back from my exs mom, I just can't believe I comprised everything I have worked for for 1 night of bs. Again, any info is appreciated.