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Chloe13xx
Nov 10, 2013, 04:22 AM
We are 13 and he thinks I'm cheating on him we have been together for 2 months and he doesn't belove I love him

15yearoldgirl
Nov 10, 2013, 10:36 AM
If he doesn't trust you not to cheat on him then maybe it's just not meant to be. But if you really want to stay together then you need to talk to him and make sure he knows that you would never/will never cheat on him and ask him why he thinks that you have? If you know why he thinks this then you have a better chance of being able to prove that it's not true. Hope I helped

cdad
Nov 10, 2013, 10:40 AM
Your 13. At 13 he doesnt know how to have a real relationship. I know you said your in love but in truth maybe its time to cut him off. His insecurity is his way of controlling you. That never works out good. Go back to being single and enjoy your life without the hassle. You dont need a boyfriend to make you whole.

15yearoldgirl
Nov 10, 2013, 11:01 AM
That's true. And you've been dating two months which is nothing? If he's already accusing you of things then the fact is the relationship isn't going to last anyway...

Cat1864
Nov 10, 2013, 11:09 AM
Chloe, one hard lesson to learn about relationships is that you cannot 'prove' you love someone or that you aren't cheating if that is what they want to believe.

The more you try to show you are innocent the more demands for 'proof' in the form of you doing what he wants will be made. As cdad said, it is a controlling behavior.

Two months is not very long as relationships go. If he is treating you like this now, it will probably get worse instead of better.

talaniman
Nov 10, 2013, 06:30 PM
You should be mad a dumb kid doubts your word, and thinks you are lying.