Hi I'm.43, had my tubal 16 it's ago after my last child. Well I heard that perimenopause can be a symptom in what I'm feeling but what do you think. In September I only.spotted so my.last.normal period would have been in August mid , still no.period been bloated feels a little.firm , pee a lot , a little cramp time to time headache a little here and there other than I feel OK. I been getting a little.more discharge white yet still no period. So is it Perimenopause I'm experiencing ?