View Full Version : If I had sex with a girl August 19th would her due date be may 27th?
Sweezy757
Nov 4, 2013, 09:07 PM
I had sex with a girl August 19th and she had her period early August is the due date possible to be the 27th? Wouldn't the due date be earlier than that?
27th of what month?
**Edit, I see that you named the month of May in your title.
Women don't get pregnant on the actual day of intercourse. If you are in doubt you will need a DNA test after the baby is born.
ScottGem
Nov 5, 2013, 05:49 AM
Sex in August with a May due date is certainly within the parameters. Conception and due dates are an estimate, not an exact calculation. So yes its possible.
Sweezy757
Nov 5, 2013, 11:16 AM
Sex in August with a May due date is certainly within the parameters. Conception and due dates are an estimate, not an exact calculation. So yes its possible.
I appreciate it. But wouldn't it be early May, not late may like the 27th?
ScottGem
Nov 5, 2013, 12:06 PM
I appreciate it. But wouldn't it be early May, not late may like the 27th?
Again conception dates are an inexact science. It can go 2 weeks or more in either direction. Its too close to tell. You have to wait until the child is born and do a DNA test to determine paternity.
May 27 would be an appropriate due date for a conception date in late August.
Sweezy757
Nov 5, 2013, 06:23 PM
I had sex with a girl aug.30th and her due date is may.26th, she got off her period aug.10th and had sex with someone before me on aug.17th who is more likely to be the father?
smoothy
Nov 5, 2013, 06:45 PM
There is a 4 week period (two weeks before and two weeks after) if you figure the estimated due date and backtrack 9 months. Current medical science can not narrow it down any closer than that.
Anyone she had sex with that entire month could be the father. Its not a game of odds, a DNA test would be required after the child's birth to know who the proud father really is.
And you do really need to know who it was for reasons of medical history if nothing else.....certain conditions and susceptibilities can run in families and are inherited.
Sweezy757
Nov 5, 2013, 06:52 PM
There is a 4 week period (two weeks before and two weeks after) if you figure the estimated due date and backtrack 9 months. Current medical science can not narrow it down any closer than that.
Anyone she had sex with that entire month could be the father. Its not a game of odds, a DNA test would be required after the child's birth to know who the proud father really is.
And you do really need to know who it was for reasons of medical history if nothing else.....certain conditions and susceptibilities can run in families and are inherited.
But if she started her period the 5th could she even be obvilating the 30th? And she got a ultrasound and was 8weeks 3days pregnant the 18th of October
smoothy
Nov 5, 2013, 06:54 PM
But if she started her period the 5th could she even be obvilating the 30th? And she got a ultrasound and was 8weeks 3days pregnant the 18th of October
You can't guess when she ovulated... women are very inconsistent from one person to the next when in their cycle it happens. Some women can get pregnant during their period.
A DNA test is needed... otherwise all anyone is doing is making wild guesses.
I know you were hoping for something else. But that's how it is. Its a long wait to find out.
Alty
Nov 5, 2013, 06:56 PM
But if she started her period the 5th could she even be obvilating the 30th? And she got a ultrasound and was 8weeks 3days pregnant the 18th of October
Ultrasound is a best guess, it can be off 2 weeks either way, 4 weeks total.
Yes, she could have been ovulating on the 30th, unless she tracked ovulation using basal temperature every day for at least 6 months (a year is more accurate) she could have ovulated any time during her cycle, even during her period.
The only way to find out who the daddy is is with a DNA test after the baby is born. That's the ONLY way.
Sweezy757
Nov 6, 2013, 08:32 PM
I had sex with a female aug.18th and she slept with someone else aug.30th, she got a ultrasound oct.18th and it indicated that she is 8weeks 3days pregnant, who is the more probable possibility? Thank you
smoothy
Nov 6, 2013, 08:39 PM
There has to be a DNA test done after the child's birth. Its impossible to differentiate possible fathers within even a 28 day period. Which is how much of an error they can have on estimated fetal age. (its plus and minus 2 weeks of the guessed age).
You've already asked this question before and got answers. Nothing is going to change what they are.
Why do you have three different sets of dates on the three times you've asked this in the last two days?
odinn7
Nov 6, 2013, 09:16 PM
You asked this yesterday and were already answered...did you figure you might get different answers this time around?
Cat1864
Nov 6, 2013, 09:49 PM
I had sex with a girl August 19th and she had her period early August is the due date possible to be the 27th? Wouldn't the due date be earlier than that?
I had sex with a girl aug.30th and her due date is may.26th, she got off her period aug.10th and had sex with someone before me on aug.17th who is more likely to be the father?
I had sex with a female aug.18th and she slept with someone else aug.30th, she got a ultrasound oct.18th and it indicated that she is 8weeks 3days pregnant, who is the more probable possibility? Thank you
You might consider sticking to one story.
No matter how you try to fiddle with who had sex on which date, the fact doesn't change that if you actually had sex with her you could be the father. Only a DNA test after the child is born will be able to determine with any accuracy the paternity of the child.
I hope for mother and child's sakes that someone is willing to take responsibility instead of trying to deny it.
Sweezy757
Nov 6, 2013, 10:15 PM
You might consider sticking to one story.
No matter how you try to fiddle with who had sex on which date, the fact doesn't change that if you actually had sex with her you could be the father. Only a DNA test after the child is born will be able to determine with any accuracy the paternity of the child.
I hope for mother and child's sakes that someone is willing to take responsibility instead of trying to deny it.
Here's the story, she ended her period aug.9th I had sex with her aug.18th unprotected, on aug.30th she had sex with another person, she was 8weeks 3 days when she had her ultrasound Oct.18th, and the due dates may.27th,all I was simply asking was which is more probable considering the dates. Because if it's an equal probability than I want her to get a DNA test while she is pregnant, the reason we found out cause she was having morning sickness in late September so she went to the doctor and was pregnant
Alty
Nov 6, 2013, 10:19 PM
Here's the story, she ended her period aug.9th I had sex with her aug.18th unprotected, on aug.30th she had sex with another person, she was 8weeks 3 days when she had her ultrasound Oct.18th, and the due dates may.27th,all I was simply asking was which is more probable considering the dates. Because if it's an equal probability than I want her to get a DNA test while she is pregnant, the reason we found out cause she was having morning sickness in late September so she went to the doctor and was pregnant
A DNA test during pregnancy is very risky, and most doctors will not do one as it risks the fetus. Why can't you wait until the baby is born for the DNA test? Why would you want to risk the child's life by doing it during pregnancy?
The only answer we, or anyone else, can give you, is that you'll need a DNA test AFTER the baby is born.
You can ask this question over and over and over again, but the advice won't change. That's the only advice anyone can give you in this situation.
Do you understand that?
Doctors won't due paternity testing during pregnancy due to the risks involved to mother and fetus.
Now, if there is a complication, and a test such as an amniocentesis is required, they may order DNA testing at that time.
Again, they will NOT test strictly for paternity during pregnancy. You are just going to have to wait this out.
Sweezy757
Nov 6, 2013, 11:32 PM
Doctors won't due paternity testing during pregnancy due to the risks involved to mother and fetus.
Now, if there is a complication, and a test such as an amniocentesis is required, they may order DNA testing at that time.
Again, they will NOT test strictly for paternity during pregnancy. You are just going to have to wait this out.
She's getting an early Down syndrome test that's why I want to do DNA then, only reason I'm stressing it is aug.18th to may.27th is not 38weeks it's 40
Alty
Nov 6, 2013, 11:56 PM
She's getting an early Down syndrome test that's why I want to do DNA then, only reason I'm stressing it is aug.18th to may.27th is not 38weeks it's 40
Gestation is 40 weeks. The 40 weeks is calculated from the moment you ovulated and had sex, not from when you actually became pregnant. Pregnancy doesn't happen the day you have sex. Most women ovulate 2 weeks after their period. So gestation is calculated from the last period. Just Google it, read and learn! This is common knowledge!
Ultrasounds can be off 2 weeks either way, early or late. So, if a woman carries to term she can deliver at 38 weeks, or 42 both are considered full term. Doctors normally don't allow a woman to go past the 42 mark. The uterus starts to, well, deteriorate at 40 weeks. But, since it's impossible to predict when a woman conceived exactly, if a woman goes past 40 weeks they'll monitor, and if nothing is wrong, if the fluid isn't low and baby is still active and doing well, a woman can go to 42 weeks (which likely isn't 42 weeks, but actually 40 because the guesstimate of the due date was wrong).
In other words, the guess for conception date and due date can be off by 4 weeks, a month. If a woman had more than one partner in that one month period any one of them can be the father.
If she's having an amnio for Downs you can ask for a DNA test at that time. If she isn't having an amnio for screening, or another serious issue, you'll have to wait until the baby's head is out of the birth canal, it's shoulders are delivered, and the rest follows, it starts to cry, and it's born. Welcome baby, your life is already wrought with uncertainty, no one wants to be your daddy. Aren't you lucky? NOT! Too bad you couldn't pick better parents. That's not how it works though. Sucks to be you. One potential daddy can't even wait to get a DNA test to prove he's not the daddy. He wants no part of this, but hey, when your mom was giving it up he was all over it. He didn't say no then. But he wants no part of the consequences of his actions. Welcome to the world of people that do whatever they want without being wiling to pay the price.
Good luck, and yes, at this point I'm just disgusted, and can no longer hide it.
Sweezy757
Nov 7, 2013, 12:09 AM
Gestation is 40 weeks. The 40 weeks is calculated from the moment you ovulated and had sex, not from when you actually became pregnant. Pregnancy doesn't happen the day you have sex. Most women ovulate 2 weeks after their period. So gestation is calculated from the last period. Just Google it, read and learn! This is common knowledge!
Ultrasounds can be off 2 weeks either way, early or late. So, if a woman carries to term she can deliver at 38 weeks, or 42 both are considered full term. Doctors normally don't allow a woman to go past the 42 mark. The uterus starts to, well, deteriorate at 40 weeks. But, since it's impossible to predict when a woman conceived exactly, if a woman goes past 40 weeks they'll monitor, and if nothing is wrong, if the fluid isn't low and baby is still active and doing well, a woman can go to 42 weeks (which likely isn't 42 weeks, but actually 40 because the guesstimate of the due date was wrong).
In other words, the guess for conception date and due date can be off by 4 weeks, a month. If a woman had more than one partner in that one month period any one of them can be the father.
If she's having an amnio for Downs you can ask for a DNA test at that time. If she isn't having an amnio for screening, or another serious issue, you'll have to wait until the baby's head is out of the birth canal, it's shoulders are delivered, and the rest follows, it starts to cry, and it's born. Welcome baby, your life is already wrought with uncertainty, no one wants to be your daddy. Aren't you lucky? NOT! Too bad you couldn't pick better parents. That's not how it works though. Sucks to be you. One potential daddy can't even wait to get a DNA test to prove he's not the daddy. He wants no part of this, but hey, when your mom was giving it up he was all over it. He didn't say no then. But he wants no part of the consequences of his actions. Welcome to the world of people that do whatever they want without being wiling to pay the price.
Good luck, and yes, at this point I'm just disgusted, and can no longer hide it.
You've got it all wrong serious, the reason I want to get a DNA test cause I want it to be mine! What the hell I don't want to buy everything for this kid to find out when it gets here it's the guy that ed her the 30th of August and not me which is the 18th. You finally answered one of my questions which is they typically ovulate 14 days after the start of the period, which means if she started her period aug.4th the 30th is 26 days after the start of her last period,and accordingly that's a little abnormal, Thank you for finally answering my specifics Jesus
Alty
Nov 7, 2013, 12:17 AM
You've got it all wrong serious, the reason I want to get a DNA test cause I want it to be mine! What the hell I don't want to buy everything for this kid to find out when it gets here it's the guy that ed her the 30th of August and not me which is the 18th. You finally answered one of my questions which is they typically ovulate 14 days after the start of the period, which means if she started her period aug.4th the 30th is 26 days after the start of her last period,and accordingly that's a little abnormal, Thank you for finally answering my specifics Jesus
The majority of women ovulate 2 weeks after their period. That means the majority. Majority can be 51%. That means that 49% don't ovulate 2 weeks after their period. Seriously, have you read nothing anyone has told you? Women can ovulate any time during the month, even during their period. Unless she was tracking ovulation by testing basal temperature every day for at least 6 months, there's no way to know when she ovulated. So no, posting that the majority of women ovulate 2 weeks after a cycle, didn't answer your question at all. There is still only one answer to your question, DNA TEST! DNA TEST! DNA TEST!
Jesus!
I'm out. Good luck!
ScottGem
Nov 7, 2013, 05:33 AM
You've got it all wrong serious, the reason I want to get a DNA test cause I want it to be mine! What the hell I don't want to buy everything for this kid to find out when it gets here it's the guy that ed her the 30th of August and not me which is the 18th. You finally answered one of my questions which is they typically ovulate 14 days after the start of the period, which means if she started her period aug.4th the 30th is 26 days after the start of her last period,and accordingly that's a little abnormal, Thank you for finally answering my specifics Jesus
It doesn't matter whether you want it to be yours or not, that there is no way to tell for sure. Women's cycles are just not that predictable. So, if you want to be sure its yours, then you will need to do a DNA test after the child is born. If you don't, then you will never be able to be sure.
The test for Down's Syndrome is a simple blood test done on every pregnant woman. It cannot determine paternity.