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You have a delimma. Sounds to me like you have true love that's for sure. Has she ever revealed the same kind of love for you? Also sounds like she has a real a**hole of a husband and I feel for the kids. This will be something she will have to figure out for herself. Sorry to say because I think if you ever gave her your two cents about her husband and life it would confuse her and you would feel bad if you came between them. My suggestion is if your religious at all talk to God about it. That has been something Ive had to learn to do. Since Ive been divorced once and now going through a second divorce Ive had a lot of soul searching and turned to my religion to help me through it because in the end if God doesn't want it for you its not going to happen. Im in a situation right now with my husband that he now after separation for 4 months he wants me back and to go to counseling. The problem we had are lack of communication and a lot of hurtful things said to each other. But you are right when a woman makes up her mind there is no turning back because with my first husband I was with him for 6 years and when my laptop computer went flying by my head one night I decide to throw all those years away and there was no looking back. So if she is a strong person she will make that decision on her own. I just hate seeing you wait for so long for her that's why I say pray. I hope this was some help