Do guys purposely make their significant other jealous by telling them about another woman who want to sleep with them & playing and joking with them in front of you for attention if you were giving them the silent treatment?

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Only if they are immature idiots.

Only if they are immature idiots.

No reason?

Probably to get a reaction, piss you off, or show you up. Women do it too, just as much. Being immature isn't reason enough?

Probably to get a reaction, piss you off, or show you up. Women do it too, just as much. Being immature isn't reason enough?

What if the female is avoiding or giving him cold shoulder?

More issues, huh?

Every few months you come along posting vague questions all similar to this one... all having to do with cheating from both you and your husband... what are you really hoping to find?

What if the female is avoiding or giving him cold shoulder?

Enough what ifs, what's the real story?

Enough what ifs, what's the real story?

You'll never get it... I recognized the name and looked back at all her previous questions...

There is a history here...

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You'll never get it... I recognized the name and looked back at all her previous questions...

Am I aloud only one story? What do previous stories have to do with now it’s a question.You base everything you went through couple yrs ago now? This have nothing to do with yrs ago.


There is a history here...

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Move on that is old.Can I have a future.history what that have to do with my question now?

Its really simple, we have no clue what you are talking about unless you care to share. Why don't you want to?

Am I aloud only one story? What do previous stories have to do with now it’s a question.You base everything you went through couple yrs ago now? This have nothing to do with yrs ago.





Move on that is old.Can I have a future.history what that have to do with my question now?

All of your questions are vague and they all have to do with the same thing... he's cheating... she's cheating... she's jealous... he's jealous...

That's what they all have to do with now. When all your questions are so similar and dealing with all the same basic idea, then yes, the history does make a difference... well, unless you care to actually tell a full story this time instead of only posting obscure bits and pieces of one.

Don't understand why my hubby via Msg his ow saying"Should of had a tab by now".Speaking of the place where they meet.what did he mean?
Yes you can link this I don't know how to link stories before my regulars get started.

lisa, your open threads were merged together. Any more questions on this subject should be added to this thread.

Frankly, I don't know why he says what he does or why you are still with him. Only he knows and he is the person you should ask. Issues in a marriage cannot be solved if you don't communicate with each other.

On New Years eve in church my husband's mistress was two seats behind.When the clock struck midnight he gave me New years kiss on the mouth.I'm special.

What is your question? Why do you continue to be with a man who doesn't respect you as his wife?

LMAO! Are you serious? So he kissed you in front of his mistress and that makes you think you're special to him? If you were really special to him he wouldn't have a mistress.

I'm betting he never kisses the mistress in front of you, but he does kiss her, and many other things, when you're not around. She's the one that's special, because he chooses to be with her. He's stuck being with you. If he were happy with your marriage, he wouldn't be messing around.

I don't know why either one of you are still together. He kisses you in front of his mistress at church and you want to know if that's romantic. You're dating someone and want to know if his saying your name more than once via a message, is a red flag.

You're totally messed up, and so is your so called marriage.

Oh, and the examples I posted are recent threads from you, not ones from the last few years, we're talking days ago.

Yes but its letting her know I'm his wife

LOL! yeah, what a special guy. He showed her who his wife is.

Yes, incredibly romantic! He would make me swoon!


Each one of your questions gets crazier than the last. You think that it's a good sign he kissed you in front of her...it makes you special? If you were special...he wouldn't have her around at all. But then again...if he meant anything to you, then you wouldn't be cheating on him either.

Yes but its letting her know I'm his wife

What?

So his mistress doesn't know you're his wife? You know she's his mistress, so I'm sure she knows that you're his wife, and she doesn't care any more than he does. If he did, she wouldn't be in the picture.

You're certifiable!

Maybe he kissed you to make his mistress jealous, make her want him even more. You're just a tool, in more ways than one.

Maybe he kissed you to make his mistress jealous, make her want him even more. You're just a tool, in more ways than one.

Good point and I would bet that is exactly what he was doing.

It is easy, he uses people to get what he wants. He controls you by using other women to make you behave. He even has you thinking it is special to show you affection in front of his mistress. ( sort of sick to the real world.)

He uses these as a person would do with emotional abuse and control of others though it. He seems very good, since you accept all the things he is doing and still stay.

I guess a normal person, may have told his mistress off in public and told her not to show her face again around her husband.

I guess in a normal world, a women would have myself respect than be with a husband who has all the mistress and throws it in her face.

But then, maybe you live in your own world, not the real one with the rest of us.

What a strange non-question.

Oh, Lisa. Have you ever considered professional counseling for this crazy dysfunctional world you live in?

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Once again your threads have been merged. Please add to this thread instead of making new ones about the same relationship issues.

Does he kiss you at home? Do you have an intimate relationship with him? Are you his wife or his legally wed maid?

Frankly, I wouldn't read too much into the fact that he kissed you at New Year's when surrounded by other people doing the same thing. I bet the Mistress was busy kissing other people too and didn't notice.

I do not know what you want from this marriage or what expect, but I can tell you that you are not going to get his undivided attention, his love, commitment or respect from him or yourself as long as things keep going the way they are.

You had your moment, at church, but she will have her moments in bed. Which do you think he will remember more?

How old are you?
This marriage sounds very inappropriate on all kinds of levels. Why are you still in it?

I will always have my moment for I am the one who's always with him.

I will always have my moment for I am the one who's always with him.

So you watch when he has sex with his mistress? Does he watch when you have sex with your boyfriend?

Just stating the obvious here, but there seems to be quite a bit of sleeping around.
So you may always be with HIM but you're with HER, her husband, whomever he may be sleeping with, and anyone else that may fall into this sad situation.
Have you thought about the risks to your health?