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Muffin22
Oct 21, 2013, 07:38 PM
A guy and I have been talking for few months on line long distance. I have really grown to care a lot about him. Was not so sure about his feelings at first but lately he has started to open up more and saying things like we are kindred spirits and I am stuck with him and once on off line said he loved me. Says he is working on a RV. I assume it was a hint. Anyway he does talk sex some of course but I just mainly listen and he has said that I have always turned him on etc. I have told him I do not have sex with anyone until I have a well established relationship, he came back with we are in a relationship. Anyway, I know all men want sex bottom line, but do you think he has sincere caring for me?

surebusy360
Oct 23, 2013, 08:42 AM
You are only having an online relationship and he wants sex on your first get together? Doesn't that seem strange to you? Holding hands, dating, meeting each others family are usually in order if you want to know where he has been and is going. I am no expert in dating but would want to get to know someone before sharing something as intimate as sex.

Oliver2011
Oct 23, 2013, 08:46 AM
Ewwwwww. Find someone real - in person - in living color. Ask yourself how many other girls does he chat to in the same way. Probably some don't have a problem talking about sex with him. He could be 14 years old or 87 years young.

talaniman
Oct 23, 2013, 11:33 AM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/did-mess-up-not-sure-769341.html

Same guy?