We dated for 3 years and just recently broke up. It shattered my heart and I feel so hurt and heartbroken by all of this. His reason was because of my parents. He said he loves me and cares about me. Then one week he started ignoring me and I felt so bad. He ignored my calls and texts. Well something happened in my family(a family member passed away) so I called him and told him the news because he was close to my family. And he told me he would be there for me but not in "that way". And I said that I appreciated it. He went to the funeral and I talked to him afterwards. And the next day he was hugging me and told me he missed me and he gave me a soft kiss. He was being good to me. He invited me to a wedding but I couldn't go because of the funeral. He was treating me nice and he complimented me on the way I was dressed and the way I looked. That night he acted good and several days after that too. I saw him at school and he kissed me numerous times and he looked like he missed me and he said he wanted me too. He sometimes has a good attitude but then out of no where he would be mean and start to ignore me again. One day he's nice and the next he's a jerk. I see him at school and he'll hug me and kiss me occasionally but then later in the day he'll treat me different. I text him and he'll text back but then he'll stop and not text anymore. He started having parties at his house and he started drinking ( he says they are just sips, he's Never got buzzed or drunk) he's never been the person that even likes to do those things. He always hated when people would do that and now that's what he's doing. He called me one night just to let me know he was OK. I'm confused with him. I don't know what to think. Does he love me still? Does he really miss me?

I have no clue but if you two are no longer together, all of this kissing and hugging and game playing needs to stop. He has not asked you back, so I would assume he does not love or miss you enough to want you back. Get another focus to your life.

Sounds like he doesn't want to date you, but because you've been dating for so long, you're comfortable. He sees you and it's natural to hug and kiss you, it's natural to be close to you, because you have been for 3 years.

He's leading you on. Go no contact. He's not being fair to you. He leads you on when he sees you, then he turns his back and is cold. It's not fair to you.

He's not going to give you what you want, he's done with the relationship. Stop letting him treat you like this. Cut off all contact. Until you do that, he'll continue using your heart like a yo-yo.