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Lindsmccue
Oct 20, 2013, 03:23 AM
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years the 1st year I thought he was the one. Until the control started he has taken everything away fr

joypulv
Oct 20, 2013, 03:30 AM
You leave by packing your things and walking out the door when he isn't there, after arranging a safe place to go and people to surround you, changing your phone number, and deleting him from social sites, all in one day.
You don't explain or apologize, and you don't have ANY contact after that - NONE. Leave a one sentence note saying 'goodbye, you are too controlling.'
What's stopping you?

Lindsmccue
Oct 23, 2013, 02:46 AM
You leave by packing your things and walking out the door when he isn't there, after arranging a safe place to go and people to surround you, changing your phone number, and deleting him from social sites, all in one day.
You don't explain or apologize, and you don't have ANY contact after that - NONE. Leave a one sentence note saying 'goodbye, you are too controlling.'
What's stopping you?
That's the best advice this week I won't be able to do it because we have the same schedule Sunday is the day :)