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MsLecole
Oct 20, 2013, 01:02 AM
Okay, so I'm 22 years old, and I like this guy a lot, and we are currently living together, and I can't tell if he's still 'into' me. He's fresh out of the military, so I know his stoic personality is a product of that. I'm just not sure how to approach the subject with him. Does anyone have any advice?
talaniman
Oct 20, 2013, 07:47 AM
Not surprising you are insecure after so many relationships and the many times you have jumped in and out of them. How long have you been with this fellow? How long did you date him?
Cat1864
Oct 20, 2013, 08:33 AM
You do seem to be all over the place. Last year you were here asking about dealing with your girlfriend's past and saying that you are a lesbian. This year, you are now living with a man and trying to figure out if he is 'still into you'.
While I am glad you seem to have moved on from the previous relationship (I hope the eleventh time breaking-up was the end of it,) I am wondering how much dating/letting go you did between the two relationships and how much experience you have in dating men. What are your expectations for this relationship?
I think it might help to know how you met him and how you ended up living together. Did you move in together because you have feelings for each other or because he needed a place to live after his discharge?