vintagelace
Oct 19, 2013, 03:07 PM
I have lived in my new neighborhood for about eight months. I met a family across the street. Actually, it's two adult couples. Two of them are brother and sister. One couple owns the home and the other couple just lives with them. The couple who just lives with them stayed most of the day at my house getting to know each other. We started walking our dogs everyday together and he would help me around the house with things I didn't know how to do.
Then I started hanging out with the homeowners. I really enjoyed their company. They were more like me and we had more in common. Like gardening and we started going to Bingo together and she was introducing me to new friends in the neighborhood. Life was good.
The first couple stopped saying hi to me and didn't want to walk the dogs with me anymore. It hurt my feelings as most people and I always get along. I have no ememies. Sometime I would ask them to walk with me and they would follow me for awhile and then turn around and ditch me. The last time they did it was almost dark and I didn't like being where we walked the dogs by myself. When I got home from the walk they were outside and I yelled at them for ditching me again. Well I cursed at them and they said nothing. None of the other neighbors heard me.
I told the other couple what had happened. I didn't see any of them for the next few days and I sent a note apologizing and said it wouldn't happen again. I told her how much a liked the friendship we had formed. I heard nothing from her so I called her a few days later. I asked if she got the note. She just said yes and nothing else. I assumed she wasn't accepting my apology. I was right. It has been almost five months now and everyone in the house ignores me.
I tried one more time to apologize with no response. I would never ignore anymore who tried to apologize to me. If they didn't like what I did, I would think she would tell me and accept my apology and tell me not to do it again.
I understand it is her brother and she is going to side with him. My feelings were hurt too but I kept on trying to be friends with them.
I just bought this house and have no plans on moving again. It's just so difficult seeing them everyday and being ignored. Do I just accept the fact that she doesn't forgive and forget? It just makes me really sad. As I said, I get along with everyone and it hurts me when someone doesn't like me.
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Then I started hanging out with the homeowners. I really enjoyed their company. They were more like me and we had more in common. Like gardening and we started going to Bingo together and she was introducing me to new friends in the neighborhood. Life was good.
The first couple stopped saying hi to me and didn't want to walk the dogs with me anymore. It hurt my feelings as most people and I always get along. I have no ememies. Sometime I would ask them to walk with me and they would follow me for awhile and then turn around and ditch me. The last time they did it was almost dark and I didn't like being where we walked the dogs by myself. When I got home from the walk they were outside and I yelled at them for ditching me again. Well I cursed at them and they said nothing. None of the other neighbors heard me.
I told the other couple what had happened. I didn't see any of them for the next few days and I sent a note apologizing and said it wouldn't happen again. I told her how much a liked the friendship we had formed. I heard nothing from her so I called her a few days later. I asked if she got the note. She just said yes and nothing else. I assumed she wasn't accepting my apology. I was right. It has been almost five months now and everyone in the house ignores me.
I tried one more time to apologize with no response. I would never ignore anymore who tried to apologize to me. If they didn't like what I did, I would think she would tell me and accept my apology and tell me not to do it again.
I understand it is her brother and she is going to side with him. My feelings were hurt too but I kept on trying to be friends with them.
I just bought this house and have no plans on moving again. It's just so difficult seeing them everyday and being ignored. Do I just accept the fact that she doesn't forgive and forget? It just makes me really sad. As I said, I get along with everyone and it hurts me when someone doesn't like me.
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