I met my boyfriend after he was separated, but not yet divorced from, his wife. She has told their children that I broke up their marriage (I didn't even know him until she had kicked him out and he was living in a different town). Additionally, she has threatened on numerous occasions to come to my house, tell my children how "evil" I am and call my employer. I am a professional and cannot have this kind of drama in the workplace. Plus I fear for my children's safety with her threatening to come to my house - I work and my 13 year old daughter may be home alone. What can I do?

You could stop seeing him.
You could get an attorney and have him write a letter to stop the harassment.
You could talk to your boyfriend and have him talk to her.

Because she is a mother and most probably wants to stay a mother her threats are probably meaningless. Any issues preventing you from mentioning this to your employer so they are not shocked or surprised if she were to call them?

You could stop seeing him.
You could get an attorney and have him write a letter to stop the harrassment.
You could talk to your boyfriend and have him talk to her.

Because she is a mother and most probably wants to stay a mother her threats are probably meaningless. Any issues preventing you from mentioning this to your employer so they are not shocked or surprised if she were to call them?

He has spoken to her and it only intensified her actions. I believe that, based on her actions and words that she has diminished mental capacity (for example she called and left vulgar and threatening messages 14 times between 12:20 and 1:10 in the morning the other day).

He has spoken to her and it only intensified her actions. I believe that, based on her actions and words that she has diminished mental capacity (for example she called and left vulgar and threatening messages 14 times between 12:20 and 1:10 in the morning the other day).

That is harassment. I would get an attorney and file a restraining order. You don't need that drama in your life. Is he worth all the drama? When I look for a partner one of the criteria is no drama.