I have been in a relationship for 9 months and as of recently she says her feelings have changed and so have min. I was stand offish person due to previous relationships and was very guarded and telling her I didn't want anything serious and never have a 100%. I knew several times through out the relationship that I loved her but now that she is pulling away I feel as if its to late. I am a good person and haven't been the greatest person but I have given a lot. I have 2 children 10&11 and she has a 4 yr old so time spent was difficult to. All I want is a fair chance a relationship so my true feelings will come out. Looking for an honest opinion of whether I should back off or continue to try to show my love. I just feel like and I care about this person so I would like to see where it goes from here

So I was in a 9 mo relationship with a great woman. I didn't give a 100% in this relationship. I have had a few bad relationships prior to this one so I was very guarded. She gave a lot more of herself then I was able to allow myself. I have 2 children 10&11 and she has a 4yr old. I would like to try and give this relationship a fair shot by giving everything to see where it goes. How ever she has pulled away considerably and I'm curious in how to get this opportunity. It's obvious there is a lot more to our relationship that you can't put down in a paragraph but that's the basics without sugar coating it. Any help would be great. I have now for the last 10 days opened up and went the extra mile but it seems to be getting me no where