I am trying to look up a person whose married name I do not know. I have tried calling directory assistance in the town she lives in supposedly. When I last talked to someone on the telephone describing I have been unable to find this person and the means that I had been previously using were not conclusive on a match, then I explained I was uncertain of this information because it said that she was deceased. And, on investigating her burial site from the director of the funeral home where this information on her death had come from, I found an empty bag with no names to say they ever knew her at all. So, when I found new life again, I investigated further thinking she still might be alive after all. And, when the call center rep looked my gal up on some website, she found my girl in Lubbock Texas with a new married name. Which is what my girl said she would do someday after she left me standing at the top of the stairway of my apartment. Hence, after the year, 1974 I have wondered what happened to my girl and if, after all these years could I find her and what on earth would we talk about.

If you don't know what you would talk about, why are you trying to find her? I suspect she would not be happy to hear from you. Life has gone on.