I just found out I was pregnant, Me and my partner have unprotected sex all the time and he ejaculates in me all the time. I finally got to the point where I stopped douching it clean. The first day of my last cyle was August 11,2013. And I did a due date calculator online (until my first appointment) and it says I conceived the 25th of August 2013 due date maay 18 of 2014 which puts me at 7 weeks right now. I had sex with someone else on the 21stand the 30th of August 2013. But he pulled out both times. Ive changed a lot and I am a one man woman now by the grace of God. Anyway me and my partner were always trying but my period still came afterwards heavily confirming I wasn't pregnant. But now I am , Im know its his but I'm just a little nervous . We have sex all the time even the day after my cyle. What do you think ?

Douching is no good for your reproductive health or as birth control. Please stop.

Pulling out does not work as birth control. Early fluids containing sperm have already started swimming toward an egg.

Online calculators are worthless and are like apps and video games -- just lots of fun.

I'm guessing the baby is "someone else's" but a DNA test after the birth will tell you who the father really is.

I think you have to wait until this baby is born for a DNA test. Gestational dating is an in exact science. There is no other way to know with any certainty.

I agree, the worst thing you were ever doing was douching it clean, that in itself was causing many problems, I have no idea why this product is still being allowed to be sold.

Pulling out, just reduces sperm, it does not stop sperm. So this partner could very easily be the father.

Conception calendars are estimates, even at the doctor latter, his date is still an estimate, and can be off from 7 to 10 days very easily.

So at this point there is no way at all, to know who the father is, the only way to know, is to do a DNA test after the baby is born.

Well thanks for all the answers I just got confirmation that it is my partners child in which I love very much I just want to thank God for transforming me into a better partner for him I am now happy and content within myself.

well thanks for all the answers i just got confirmation that it is my partners child in which i love very much i just want to thank God for transforming me into a better partner for him i am now happy and content within myself.

Just curious, what... or how... did you get confirmation?

I'd like to hear how you have confirmation of this as well... an hour ago you weren't sure.

How did you get positive confirmation? Did you have an amniocentesis or CVS?

How? Because I have a good God , a loving one . He said not to worry.

Because our God is an awesome God . I got into the habit of prayer outloud. Talkng to him like I'm talking to a friend. He wrapped his arms around me and gave me sheer comfort and warmth he told me not to worry . And Amen.

How? Becuase i have a good God , a loving one . He said not to worry.
And how did He tell you this?

Oh, well that's different. Sure, problem solved now.

Oh goodness.

Because our God is an awesome God . I got into the habit of prayer outloud. Talkng to him like im talking to a friend. He wrapped his arms around me and gave me sheer comfort and warmth he told me not to worry . And Amen.

You know you're sick, right? You need professional help. Cheating on your partner and now this? It's scary to think that you are bringing a child into this world under your care. I sure hope the father is normal.

Have you ever been diagnosed with a mental illness?

How? Becuase i have a good God , a loving one . He said not to worry.

Just fyi, God can't tell you if this is his baby or not.

Also, where was God when you were sleeping around? Not so present then, was he?

You need far more help than we can give you. Only a DNA test after the baby is born can determine paternity in this case. God can't help you figure it out. Only science can.

Good luck.

If God told you whose baby this was, surely he told you that cheating was immoral.

Just curious, what... or how... did you get confirmation? God told her. That is how she got confirmation. Sorry state of affairs really.

It makes me wonder why so many people waste money on DNA testing. Why not simply ask God to tell them the answer? In child support cases, the court could maybe ask God to take care of DNA testing. Think of how much money could be saved!

It makes me wonder why so many people waste money on DNA testing. Why not simply ask God to tell them the answer? In child support cases, the court could maybe ask God to take care of DNA testing. Think of how much money could be saved!

Hey, at least she didn't try to tell us that God is the father of this child. But if the boyfriend demands a DNA test, which he will do if he has half a brain, maybe that will be her version when the DNA test comes back to show he's not the daddy.

I wonder why God didn't talk to her before she posted this question.

I also wonder what sort of drugs she's on. Pretty powerful stuff if she's hearing the voice of God.

Faith is a wonderful thing, but that all it is. I'm happy your faith makes you feel better, but I (and obviously several others here) will be skeptical until DNA testing confirms paternity.

And, in case you decide to rely solely on faith, be aware that the probability of the truth coming to light is strong. At some point your child may need blood testing or some other tissue matching for health reasons. And that could reveal your partner as not being the bio father.

be aware that the probability of the truth coming to light is strong.
And even how the child looks, who he takes after.

I'm worried that you became a 'one man woman' the minute you found out you are pregnant.
I'm worried that you hope God will help you out of this mess if your partner finds out he's not the father.